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xsavvyxsweetsx in abortionstories

i dont have a story..

Feb 01, 2005 23:32

* hi, my name is jenny and i am 18. i've never had an abortion or taken a pregnancy test. i've had a boyfriend for a year [its a very serious relationship] and over the course of this year we lost our virginities to one another. we've had the handful of times where the condom broke or it came off inside of me. [we always use a condom] and i've ( Read more... )

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xsavvyxsweetsx February 2 2005, 05:21:05 UTC

* the thing is that im into rough sex, and normally im very lubriacted. but since then we've switched around with different condoms and we've had no other accidents. we've decided mutually that non lubriacted trojan condoms with a small amount of KY warming liquid works, isnt too much, and isnt too lubricated.

but thank you VERY much for your comment back.

as for my friend, her and her twin sister and i have talked and we've decided that for now she should wear a sweatshirt while home, even though she isn't showing her pregnancy yet at all. her parents dont know and she has decided to get an abortion but is unsure of the method she'll use.

thank you so much :)

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xsavvyxsweetsx February 2 2005, 19:13:04 UTC

* well right now shes at about 6 weeks. but thanks alot :)

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burned_rose February 2 2005, 05:08:12 UTC

Your support really does mean alot to us. There are people out there who refuse to support a woman, even when she needs it the most, so when people, like yourself, come along, it brings a smile to my face, reminding me that there are decent people in this world.

If you want, you can hook your friend up with LJ and we can help her if she needs it. If you want a painless method for her, the pills may not be successful. I never had the insertion pills, but people say that it hurts. Surgical abortions tend to be more intrusive, but alot less painful, since you are not gradually going through the process, but quicker. All I got were a few cramps, which were not bad at all.

But again, THANK YOU!! It truly is people like yourself which make some people live day by day. You are more amazing than I can ever be, so thank you. :) :) *hugs!*

xsavvyxsweetsx February 2 2005, 05:27:33 UTC

*of course, how could i not support her. i care and i want to make sure she has someone to lean on. i'll see if she'd like to come on LJ, thanks for caring. :)

wow, thanks ;;smiles;; i just try to be supportive. i take the position of "its your body, if you choose an abortion thats okay with me." i'm not for or against, i don't believe it is my job to tell somebody what to do with their body or not. ;;hugs;;

thanks a million :)

eyelid February 2 2005, 19:36:24 UTC

of course, how could i not support her.
You'd be surprised at how some "friends" can be.

Some think it's their big exciting chance to Save A Baby (and their friend's soul!). Some treat their friends like crap for even having had sex in the first place. Some think it's gossip to tell everyone they know. Some whip out the babykiller lines.

Your friend is lucky that you are a good person with your heart in the right place :)

xsavvyxsweetsx February 3 2005, 19:00:41 UTC

* aw thanks alot, yeah i know. :)

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tainted_water February 2 2005, 06:14:27 UTC

if only there were more people like you in the world.

the best thing you can do for her is be there with her every step of the way.
its a scary and cold road to walk alone...trust me.
You're a good friend :)

xsavvyxsweetsx February 2 2005, 19:20:03 UTC

* yeah, i'm trying my best to be there for her 24/7. aw thanks, yeah she has me and two other friends of hers and her twin sister. so i'm doing whatever i can to make this easier on her. i really dont think this has settled in, she just found out the other day.

thanks a million, guys :)

cailin_t February 2 2005, 14:14:56 UTC

"as painless as possibly.. physically..." yeah - you don't want to advocate a medical abortion if she has a severe aversion to pain. go surgical under general anesthesia.

xsavvyxsweetsx February 2 2005, 19:23:04 UTC

* ;;nods;; alrighty. thanks so much :) really, you guys are really being heplful and i want to thank you so much. :) i just want this to be as painless as it can be for her.

med vs. surgical eyelid February 2 2005, 19:51:50 UTC

It's great that you're there for your friend ( ... )

Re: med vs. surgical xsavvyxsweetsx March 10 2005, 16:33:36 UTC

she took a surgical one and said she felt discomfort and then a little pain and it felt like 30 seconds later she was in recovery. and she bled alot and cramped afterwards. but everything is good now. thanks a bunch :)

Re: med vs. surgical eyelid March 10 2005, 17:07:54 UTC

Thanks for letting us know :) It's always good to have these things down for the next woman to see...