Abortion isn't murder; deep down you know that, or you wouldn't have done it, you know? :) None of us here would actually kill a child, yet we have all had abortions. The vast majority of the people know intuitively that there is a difference. It's a very different thing to stop a pregnancy, especially early on.
It sounds like you've really been through a lot. Do your parents know about the molestation and the rape? Because if so, maybe you can tell them you need some counselling just about that, and they could pay for it?
Otherwise - if you're in college most campuses have therapists on hand that you can see for free. Check around. You're always welcome to talk here, of course :) Or on afterabortionAlso - there are many women here, including myself, who have no guilt or conflict about our decisions. So guilt and pain isn't NECESSARY or inevitable :) If you find that you're feeling ok with your decision, don't question that or feel bad about it. It's ok to feel ok :) It's also ok to NOT feel ok, of course. Just try to keep
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It sounds like you've really been through a lot. Do your parents know about the molestation and the rape? Because if so, maybe you can tell them you need some counselling just about that, and they could pay for it?
Otherwise - if you're in college most campuses have therapists on hand that you can see for free. Check around. You're always welcome to talk here, of course :) Or on afterabortionAlso - there are many women here, including myself, who have no guilt or conflict about our decisions. So guilt and pain isn't NECESSARY or inevitable :) If you find that you're feeling ok with your decision, don't question that or feel bad about it. It's ok to feel ok :) It's also ok to NOT feel ok, of course. Just try to keep ( ... )
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