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[absolutpequeno]

I wonder if I have a hormonal defect, because I'm not as sexual as I'd like to be. For example, I'm beginning to see a guy and I'm noticing that I get emotionally attached to a small degree. The sexual attraction is there, and the emotional stuff is still a bit too early to evaluate, but a big part of me wants it to mean something. Inevitably, I

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[iceraver]

Sexuality is a funny thing. For most of my life, I didn't have much of a sex drive at all. I would date, even be in LTRs and I wouldn't have more of a drive than once every two or three weeks. Now, I've found one that means the world to me. And since then, it's increased dramatically.

[louer]

that's a really interesting post. i totally understand. i just started dating again after a long hiatus, and i've never even hit 3 months. i always spend a lot of energy at the beginning stages ignoring the fact that i always want things to work out and become something big and important. i have an active imagination!

And you're right, it's always an adventure. I'm finally old enough to just enjoy that part of it for the time being, but sometimes I wish I could go back to my pre-cynical days at UCSB, when I always assumed I'd meet someone who would sweep me off my feet...someday.

I also had this fling with a fun guy over the last few years, and he commented at some point that I was not nearly as sexual as he was. Which surprised me at first. Granted, he was on sex overdrive most of the time... but it was interesting to read your post in which you said you're "not as sexual as [you'd] like to be"

Definitely relevant to my life!