hmmm....my name is Lisa...I'm 30 years old anf from southern NJ.........I've never posted before....but feel the need to now....(cross-posted in my personal journal as well
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Re: I hate them so much......ragecarnuuDecember 14 2003, 20:19:30 UTC
I hear you.
Maybe just tell them you can't come down this year cause you might lose it on him being there. They might Not like the truth, but they will know you are honest in your feelings.
What would you or your children lose from not attending these family get-togethers? I imagine consciously or subconsciously they know you are uncomfortable there. It is a malicious act for your family not to believe or acknowledge your story. Can you avoid it entirely?
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I'm 36, just joined this community this week myself.
One of my two perps is still alive. I understand.
It sucks that keeping family means including them.
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Maybe just tell them you can't come down this year cause you might lose it on him being there.
They might Not like the truth, but they will know you are honest in your feelings.
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