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[lolita2002]

I posted this previously in another community, but thought I would share it here too

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[melsmarsh]

however, I am still alone in many ways, for I have not read or heard (yet) of anyone who has actually acted upon their feelings with their professor.

I did.

[__goldengirl]

Hey, do you mind if you tell me what happened? How did you act upon your feelings?

I haven't acted upon mine in a very dramatic way, but I feel like I'm going to burst because the feeling is mutual and I know I can do something about it. I don't know if I'll be making the right decision in the future or end up regretting it.

That's part of it. But I also am interested in hearing stories about other people's lives. I like to know people on a personal level.

[melsmarsh]

We became friends and after several hours of intellectual foreplay, Neal confessed that he had been thinking about me in a sexual way. Basically that is what it came down to. Eventually he realised that I was starting to think about him in that way as well. But he initiated everything. :)

If you want to know about the relationship on a TMI level here is a story for you.

::mad face::
Some of the other members (such as pressed_flowers) apparently were offended by the story and they judged me without knowing me. They think their love is so pure because they have not acted on it. Grrr... My life is an open book and if you have any questions after reading the story I would be glad to answer them so as long as you are not judgemental. :)

[pressed_flowers]

I am still alone in many ways, for I have not read or heard (yet) of anyone who has actually acted upon their feelings with their professor. It depends on how you define acting upon ones feelings. I might not have had an affair or sex with my professor but that doesn't mean I haven't acted upon my feelings with him. He liked me enough to give me an open invitation to invite me to visit him in office once the semester was over and I liked him enough to take him up on it. I gave him a letter and a card telling him how much I cared for him and how deeply he had touched me and changed the direction of my life. He held me in his arms, there was an unspoken physical exchange of emotion. I've graduated from that college but him and I are still in contact and he encourages me to stay in touch

[lolita2002]

I apologize for the way I worded that. I did not mean to exclude anyone... in fact when I typed it up it was when I had only just discovered one community that was merely full of young girls who just had crushes, and nothing more, on their teachers. I still felt excluded and that is why I said what I did -- it wasn't until after I posted that that I read of relationships that were more in depth between some of you.

and please keep in mind I definitely do not define "acting upon feelings" as just sexual contact. yes, I had sex with my teacher, but I also had a VERY strong, emotional bond with him before and after any of our sexual contact happened. it very much depends on what exactly your feelings are. in your case you would rather not share that kiss with your professor. in my case, I wanted to. our definitions of what we would like to act upon are different already, see what I mean

[across_the_line]

He held you in his arms?! LUCKY~!!! T__T

[horsegal98]

Thank you so much for sharing your story with me! When my school found out about my feelings for Robert, I was expelled but eventually the department leant me back in. We're banned from seeing eachother, but we make time...just not enough *sighs*

[lolife]

I sort of know your situation, I'm just a bit younger. Mind if I friend you?

[lolita2002]

of course -- and I'll add you to mine as well!

[janex]

i...came close.
but i got scared, & backed off.
:-/
now i don't know what i want.
but i'd like to hear your story.
may i friend you?

<3
*m

[lolita2002]

of course, maybe my journal can help you out a little -- I added you