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TELL ME A SECRET

1) Post anonymously, I have no way of knowing who it is, IP logging is off.
2) Tell me anything you wish, it can be directed at me or it can be completely random or just something you need or want to get off your chest. Silly or serious.

Comments

[anonymous]

sometimes i wonder how you reconcile going out/getting drunk..forgetting yourself/wasting time------ with your activism. sometimes i feel like it is a parent telling a kid not to smoke, but still smoking. children learn from examples, from practices, from actions. No matter what you tell someone to do, they will heed your actions, not necessarily your words. So, one one hand, yeah, palestine, yeah, queer rights. But on the other hand...

sure, we all have our inconsistencies, but.. i just .. i think you have some serious potential.

and im not saying you are not working on that or not realizing it. who am i to say?

I just want to say i love you, and i hope and pray that you and i will both progress to be better people.

[anonymous]

I think it's important to live a balanced life, though- partying and taking time to relax helps activists not burn out. It's important to just have pleasure sometimes.

[anonymous]

I agree. I would liken it to how Mardi-Gras is a festival of indulgences celebrated right before Lent, the period of physical/spiritual abstinence. It's all good.

[anonymous]

me too.. i don't necessarily see this as a contradiction.. we need to take care of ourselves and enjoy life. burnout happens when we don't..

[anonymous]

and. im sorry if ive offended you. or if that came off as rude. and perhaps it did. but i didnt intend it to. the end.

[anonymous]

and to the poster above I say:

"you better eat your wheaties and just rest up
in case somebody call you and say "let's fuck."

[anonymous]

Sorry. I am tired. I would delete the above if I could but because this is anonymous I do not know how. To explain: the post immediately above was more meant to be sent to , as a kind of counterpoint to the opinions expressed about her by the poster above. They were not meant to be addressed to the poster above. My apologies. My brain is not working that great and verbal articulation failed me.

[anonymous]

The older I get the more I am tempted to lie about my polyamory to people. Especially when I am approached by eligible butches of colour and I really don't want to have to tell them that I hit it sometimes with a queer white dude. Yes, ideally I could meet tons of butches/ transdudes of colour who are totally chill with the poly and not threatened by the girl they want to date hitting it with a dude twice a year, but this is not the ideal. I used to believe in total honesty, but the older I get the more I realize that a lot of fine people just can't deal with it.

[anonymous]

i just made this super hot girl come all over our friend's bed by only kissing her and rubbing her nipples. but she's bit, andi'll probably never hear from here again. i fucking hate bi women sometimes, though i often ID as one.

[anonymous]

Wow. Fuck yeah. Did you have some special technique or is she just really responsive to nipple stimulations?

[anonymous]

i think she jsut really needed some attention! but i was rather proud. i guess her nipples are really sensitive..

so far, she has surprised me a bit. she cancelled the tentative date tonight because she feels wretched (as do i -- we drank a lot! and got home late late late) but she did reschedule for later in the week.

but i realise am sick of being the comfortable, out queer who always takes charge. gotta start dating some butches -- am sick of being gentlemanly!

[anonymous]

i hear ya. the only chicks who dig me are the shy "bicurious" ones who want to bang me but need to be coaxed into it, then end up going back to their boyfriends after getting their pussy licked.