The strangest request I have yet to ask of anyone

[acefowl]

I'm gonna take my Humor Hat off for this post, because I'm having a problem I'm hoping someone out there can help me with, and I don't want anyone to think I'm being my usual weird self, although it's certainly going to sound like it. Ok, here goes

Comments

[neliobelmont]

I am afraid I can offer no advice on this outside of attacking the very concept of "love" to begin with. If you will be a Kumori Con this weekend, we could talk about it if you want.

[acefowl]

Unfortunately I'm not. Kinda forgot about it, and Vancouver, WA is a bit too far away for me to make a trip for the day. I appreciate the thought, though. Thanks.

Honestly, I'm beginning to question the whole "Love" concept myself, so a discussion wouldn't be all that inappropriate. As I posted below, I'm beginning to wonder if I'll ever know if I'll feel the real thing sometime.

Don't worry, this ain't breaking the guidelines. I'm not giving up on love, just questioning my understanding of it.

[pyro01]

Alright, here's my best guess..

You're not in love with her, you decided that you had the possibility of being in love with her, and you're in love with the idea of being in love with her. You are so totally obsessed with this idea, that you believe that you are in love with her, and you can't see where the emotion is coming from. I've been through this 6 or 7 times, until I realized what was actually happening. You should see what's going on eventually, when you find yourself bored with her one day or realize that you don't really have many feelings for her, and wonder why.

[acefowl]

Wow, that's actually a really good guess. I think I've been through that a few times myself, although all the other times it was women I actually knew in real life. This might be one of those times. The fact that this time it was with a celebrity makes it a bit easier to recognize, as I've forced myself to not expose myself to anything Freezepop since Saturday.

Haveta wonder though, what the real thing feels like, and if I'd be able to tell the difference. I guess it's one of those "Trust me, you'll know" things, huh?

[pyro01]

[pyro789x]

Hey man, would you mind re-adding me? :D