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[acer_genus]

Well we're not going to talk about the difference between assertive and aggressive cuz they're the same damn thing (if you don't like someone, they're aggressive; if you like 'em, they're assertive).  You just stick your foot in the door

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[ellie]

Women get this too you know. Barry would tell me that I was being too aggressive when I tried within reason to get things I wanted. (Sorry, but after tonight, he's on my mind. Can't shake him.) Then if we sit around and wait we get passed by.

I think humanity is kinda fucked either way.

That aside, I think you are all of those things and I did notice you are a pretty fucking awesome guy. If you ever want to commiserate with a bottle of wine in Troy, I can be found.

[silent_change]

Now that's the passion I'm talking about... work that awesome guy stuff you got, my friend!

[oooooooo1]

You is awesome!!!

[silent_change]

Hello. I don't know who you are, you are masked in your pic, but am I to assume your gender as female because of it? It matters not, only that if we are three women who have responded to this entry, all in agreement of his awesomeness, is it these comments that let him believe so?

Or is it up to acer to believe?

I guess we help, but as females, he declares we do not understand. Poor acer, I mean, I KNOW it, and I hope he finds someone else to love that KNOWS it as we three do.

[kitty_scarboro]

I always think about it in terms of emotion -- assertive is just not as emotional motivated and more in my eyes (at least) for logical reasoning.

It is a hard line for me especially through the eyes of men in a very women sparse workplace. I am working on being very clear, logical and unemotional about my case.