Be careful dude. Just be careful. And don't do anything that you'll come to regret for many, many years to come.
But I know exactly what you're talking about. It's the last major hurdle, I think, to a relationship truly meant to last forever...how to handle that me/we split. I don't know the details on your end...but I've no doubt you'll be able to figure that out.
The more I read this, the more sense it makes. I'm excited to talk to you about all of this tomorrow.
I don't want you to ever feel you can't be yourself around me, and if you ever feel overwhelmed, overcrowded, unable to be just Josh, I want you to tell me. I will do my part to be sure I don't encroach upon your space, your life, etc. I'm kind of relieved to hear that you want to talk about Jo. No one LIKES to hear about exes, but as long as you're not telling me all the wonderful things she did and I don't do, or how I pale in comparison ;p, I'm just glad to know you're comfortable talking to me, or at least talking about, things you used to lock away.
I won't take up more space here. You said it all very nicely. As long as you can keep the "you" and still love the "me" and work in the "us" as it fits, I don't see why we can't make this work.
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But I know exactly what you're talking about. It's the last major hurdle, I think, to a relationship truly meant to last forever...how to handle that me/we split. I don't know the details on your end...but I've no doubt you'll be able to figure that out.
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I don't want you to ever feel you can't be yourself around me, and if you ever feel overwhelmed, overcrowded, unable to be just Josh, I want you to tell me. I will do my part to be sure I don't encroach upon your space, your life, etc. I'm kind of relieved to hear that you want to talk about Jo. No one LIKES to hear about exes, but as long as you're not telling me all the wonderful things she did and I don't do, or how I pale in comparison ;p, I'm just glad to know you're comfortable talking to me, or at least talking about, things you used to lock away.
I won't take up more space here. You said it all very nicely. As long as you can keep the "you" and still love the "me" and work in the "us" as it fits, I don't see why we can't make this work.
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