R.I.P. matthew valenza<3

[ad_rock_is_love]

i'm watching/living in the twilight zone right now

last night
before 2007 even came
my friend matt valenza was hit by a car
while running across peninsula blvd

the following 3 hours had just been a blur
i found myself in dunkin donuts, hysterically crying with a group of skaters
then in a car with 3 people i barely knew
and then at the diner with everyone

Comments

[anonymous]

I'm the parent of high school age kids. I'm very sorry about the death of your friend.

I stumbled over your blog while seeking information/confirmation of Matt's death. The reason I'm posting here is that, if any of your blogs postings are legit, you and your friends seem to have serious issues with alcohol and drugs. You probably need to get some help.

You're not going to bring Matt back and this is a very scary time for you and your friends. Perhaps use this as a means to address your addictions. Reach out to your parents, your friends and their parents. They love you and can help you and you can help them. Show them your blog and let them know you want and need help.

If what you post about your drunken nights is even half true, it may only be a matter of time before you or your friends hurt yourselves or worse, someone else. Please do consider what you're doing to yourself and how your parents would feel if they lost you. Nothing could be a bigger nightmare for a parent, believe me.

God Bless you.

[onthe97thfloor]

shut up.
you know nothing about me, my friends, our families, or matt.

the last thing we need is for you to be lecturing us.
you self-rightous bitch.
you're trying to save our lives?
what about his
we couldn't save his
so why do you think you can save ours?

we aren't addicted. this is high school. this is reality.
i got my reality check last night..maybe you should get yours now.
i bet your "high schol age kids" are doing the same fucking thing.
don't be my parent
i have one already. i need people for support, advice..someone to explain how to get this hole out of my stomach..to tell me how to stop crying.
tell me how to do that. then you can save me.

[ad_rock_is_love]

it was a horrible accident the fact that all you can think about is alcohol is disgusting.
my own mother wasnt even concerned with that, she was worried about matt, which is the focus of this entry and of the whole situation.
stop trying to make shit out of what is supposed to be about and for our friend.

and please stop stalking my life
you dont know me and you also have no idea how i handle myself.