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[addycaissa]

This is Rumour Control, here are the facts:

People have once again been spreading rumours about me, and while this post may be seen as rising to it, it's actually an attempt to put a stop to it. Contrary to what a number of people are saying, I have not lost my virginity. I am not ashamed to say that. Obviously it is something I rather were not the

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[addycaissa]

It's just so frustrating, I mean there's been rumours about me and several people pretty much constantly for the 3 years I've been in Glasgow. I've hardly been posting on the forum at all lately, and I'm pleased with myself for having kept pretty much completely away from the LJ-lite threads recently (such as WOYM, what made you smile/misserable/pissed off today etc) but there's ALWAYS the chance of problems on the forum. I mean, Let's Get Addy Laid in a Month still sticks in my mind *shudders*.

I'd very much like to go a single night without someone making a suggestive comment about me and any of my friends, and in the last 2/3 weeks I've had to deflect rumours literally 20/30 times. We're also both being tricked into "admitting" things whilst drunk by certain people, which makes me angry.

[anonymous]

"But I'm getting increasingly pissed off at people constantly assuming that whenever I become friends with a girl, something has/will/should happen, and consequently everyone and their brother, whenever they see us together, making suggestive comments, asking when she's gonna shag me, etc."

Everyone does this to their mates. It's just banter.

[system_star]

I am agreeing with this person. Every guy gets stuff like that off people they know if they are matey with a girl.

And you really do bring it on yourself with the forum stuff, I mean, you have made a public entry underlining I AM STILL A VIRIGN. And it's public. And you know people from the forum are going to read it. More so if people think it's a laugh. Which, you have already acknowledge that they do.

If you don't want UH OH DRAMAZ - you can avoid it. It's not hard.

[addycaissa]

Everyone gets it a bit but non stop for 3 years with every girl he meets? Pushing it a bit.

I do bring it on myself a bit, but not all the time. This entry is public deliberately, precisely because people on the forum will read it. However, I've also deliberately kept it off the forum itself for obvious reasons.

Ultimately there is drama here, and avoiding it completely isn't an option since the rumours won't stop. This leaves me with a choice of 2 dramas - claim that its true and that I've slept with her which is (a) a lie and (b) begging to create a "ZOMG Addy got laid!!1111!11!" thread, or deny that its true which is (a) true and (b) results in less harassment for me and more to the point her if folk actually take the hint.

She's pissed off at folk constantly asking her if she's slept with me and that in itself is enough for me to take action.

[anonymous]

I was told by someone that "the girl in question" had told him that she had slept with you. And, apparently, you had a big wang! I don't think that's a particularly bad rumour eh?

[addycaissa]

No comment on the latter part (;)) but with the former, thats definitely not true! She's also pissed off at the rumours which is part of why I've posted this. I'm more concerned about her being pissed off about it than me tbh, because it's because of me that folk are saying things about her.

[addycaissa]

I've spoken to the person concerned about this tonight by the way and she's very grateful I've made this entry, and "ridiculous" was her reaction to the notion it was stoking drama - this is for her benefit because she is very pissed off and very upset about comments people are making in her direction.

I'm very angry that people don't seem to understand or respect that as a reason for my wanting this stopped. Me? Could care less. Not fair on her though, not in the slightest.

[potatojunket]

I have not lost my virginity

I thought you were raped by LesMTS?

[potatojunket]

Was that before or after the fallen_nemesis 'incident'?

[addycaissa]

The LesMTS one was first, and the Laura one was followed by Rach I think (Rach having gotten her revenge by attempting to torture me to death subsequently).

These were very disturbing dreams of course (no offence Laura ;) )

Thanks for reminding me of that, I'd pleasantly forgotten *attempts to erase own memory*

[potatojunket]

we aim to please.