a big enough heart to give a hater a hug

[adelaide129]

today i'm going to write about something i've never written about before, but i think i really need to have this discussion with myself. in my constant pursuit of truth, as you know, i have really focused on understanding my motivations. this forces me to examine my innate being, my subconscious, my childhood. and i feel that i need to tell you

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[neverendingsoda]

For what it's worth, Sara, I've known you pretty well and never guessed that about you; maybe Dan is more perceptive, but I don't think so. You ARE mixed up, but you are equally well put together and intelligent and have a perception of yourself that will lead to self improvement (with some likely self loathing on the way).

I'm lately isolating myself from the opposite sex and avoiding romantic entanglements (it's pretty easy, when you're me and you live here...). I think it's the best action to take when a person needs to be friends with themselves first.

I don't know if that helped, but plenty of people don't consider you a fool, and I'm one of them.

[adelaide129]

thanks, max. much love.

[adelaide129]

:) thanks, jax. xoxox and thank you for being strong along with me.

[blue_ruin]

you are no fool! and don't think about who you would be if this hadn't happened, because although your life might be more stable, you wouldn't be as strong. I know that's corny sounding, but that's the only way I've been able to accept my personal experiences...Even though I feel like I'm constantly getting fucked over or fucking myself over at least I have the chance to grow. I'm really proud of you for talking about this, and you are a beautiful person and you are and will be strong.
<3 amelia