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[adequetefred]

It's official. Zander and I are over.

It's been over for weeks. But who really cares.

He said, "We need to go our separate ways. I got my own thing going on and I need closure."

But I know the truth. He's sick of dealing with my shit. He gave up on me, and I never wanted to be in this thing in the first place.

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[andsheslept]

How long were you together?

[adequetefred]

around 4 months or so

[andsheslept]

:(

hugs

[rt]

That really blows, but it sounds like it was ultimately for the best. Don't beat yourself up about it, and feel better soon, okay?

Re: hugs

[adequetefred]

You're right, it is ultimately for the best. I keep having to remind myself. I'm not going to stop beating myself up about it, though, but that's no big deal, I beat myself over everything, I'm used to the abuse.

OOOO