"no means if the answer changes to yes because of your pressure, that's coercion".
"I've had the experience of waking up at a party to someone fucking me. Wasn't something I would care to repeat. I never, ever, mentally classified it as rape -- though I had been forced into sexual acts previously, by a boyfriend, that I did "count" -- because that was just what happened to girls who were stupid enough to get drunk enough to pass out at parties.
I spent my teen years being aggressively promiscuous so that nobody would have the chance to take it before I gave it. There should be a word for that, I think. It's not rape, but I wasn't doing it NOT out of fear, you know?"
misspamela on the comments section of the entry On Rape and Men (oh yes I'm going there) by
cereta
The title is from anachronisma , also from the same post.
I spent my teen years being aggressively promiscuous so that nobody would have the chance to take it before I gave it. There should be a word for that, I think. It's not rape, but I wasn't doing it NOT out of fear, you know?"
misspamela on the comments section of the entry On Rape and Men (oh yes I'm going there) by
cereta
The title is from anachronisma , also from the same post.