I think that because you both don't have much free time that whatever you had is gone. I wouldn't hesitate or focus on it too much or worry because this sort of thing happens all the time. People just end up going down different roads in life and you can just chalk up the whole thing to experience.
I think the best thing you can do is email him. Act friendly and let him know that you're just saying hello and ask him how he's doing. I wouldn't mention the dating or anything of that nature so there is no pressure on you or him. Just act like you would towards any friend and leave it at that. I wouldn't expect a return email or much of anything in return. but it's the emailing that will put the ball in his court.
In the future, things may be awkward but just act friendly and polite. That's all you can really do because neither of you did anything wrong. I dunno why the guy didn't call you but I wouldn't hold a grudge or anything over that.
Ok well I just emailed him, mostly stating that I don't have the time to see him, because working 2 jobs takes up all of my time (which it does). I mean, I havn't even seen any of my friends since NYE. But I told him I want to stay in contact and it was nothing he did. So hopefully he doesn't think I'm a total jerk. Thanks for your advice too!
Are you still into each other?ask_lyssaFebruary 11 2008, 00:06:23 UTC
Maybe the problem is that you're not that much into each other anymore? You've done some dating, had some fun, but it becomes harder and harder to hold on to a relationship that is not completely satisfying. You already know that he's selfish, some girls can cope with that type of guys, some can't. The question is, are you willing to? Is he worth the trouble? Is it about lust, love, friendship, passion? What makes you want to come back to him, even though you want more from a relationship? Think about it. Maybe you will be able to find the answers to your questions if you'll try to look at him and your relationship with a different eyes?
Well obviously you have some sort of feelings for him, and it's not just ''friends'' The reason for this is because you seem to care about his feelings, meaning that if you did not care you would not be wondering or even thinking about getting in contact with him in the right manner. But from my experiences, let me tell you that what he did is not right!! there was no excuse for him not to return your call!! I mean u guys have not seen eachother for such a long time, and if he was really INTRESTED, and respected you in any way, he should have returned your call.. and no!! you should not call him because you already made that attempt and left him a message. It was his responsiblity to return ur call... and he has not ever since so i dont think U should. If he is intrested, he will call U and appoligize for his behavier, and he better have a good excuse.. he's selfish yes,but even selfish people dontleave a person they care about hanging like that.
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I think that because you both don't have much free time that whatever you had is gone. I wouldn't hesitate or focus on it too much or worry because this sort of thing happens all the time. People just end up going down different roads in life and you can just chalk up the whole thing to experience.
I think the best thing you can do is email him. Act friendly and let him know that you're just saying hello and ask him how he's doing. I wouldn't mention the dating or anything of that nature so there is no pressure on you or him. Just act like you would towards any friend and leave it at that. I wouldn't expect a return email or much of anything in return. but it's the emailing that will put the ball in his court.
In the future, things may be awkward but just act friendly and polite. That's all you can really do because neither of you did anything wrong. I dunno why the guy didn't call you but I wouldn't hold a grudge or anything over that.
Good Luck!
~Becky
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