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[loveliz89]

Gender: Female  
Age: 18

I need a hobby. I need something to get my mind off of him.

We broke up last week and now I'm obsessing-- thinking of everything, what went wrong, what was right, how much I need him, why I miss him so much, how he tastes, how good it feels when were together... I can not stop thinking about him and its making me sick. I've

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[hoodwink]

Hey...

You need to give it time. It's only been a very short amount of time and you need to let your heart heal. Writing does help, spending time with friends and keeping busy also help. Sometimes you need to take the time to cry, to vent, to take walks and hot baths. Pamper yourself! Depending on how serious things were with him, it might take a few month to start feeling better.

With that said, take a break from the dating world. and don't make contact with your ex. Both things could really backfire. Ask friends to keep you busy. Dive into your school work or work more hours if you can. Do things you enjoy doing.

and mostly, give yourself time.

Good Luck,

Becky

[_insanity_lost]

Hang out with friends who make you laugh, and get into a conversation with them about something other than your relationship. You need to get it all out and vent and whatnot, but sometimes just getting your mind off it keeps you sane!

*hugs* good luck!

[loveliz89]

thank you. i'll try anything

omg he called me this morning just to tell he missed me and loved me. i think he's just trying to mess with my head and its working because i'm so confused right now.

[hoodwink]

I don't know why you broke up but you need time apart to heal before ever trying anything again.