Best friend in love with a rapist, convict (triggers)

[crazylikeheaven]

My best friend (14 yrs) and roomate is in love with a rapist and pedophile, who is in prison. She is 38, worked at a corrrectional facility for sex offenders and met this man, he's in his 50's, about 6 years ago. They started a phone and letter orrespondence, "fell" in love, she also saw him every day in the prison. I lived 300 miles away from her

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[hoodwink]

Hi

[xsouthernl0ve]

Agreed.

[crazylikeheaven]

My intention is not to make her do anything, I am more looking for thoughts and opioins. I am so close to the situation it really is hard to see things clearly. I want to be her friend but I'm not so sure what is appopraite anymore, this whole thing is so confusing. I feel hurt for her doing something so destructive, bewilded at the change in her and confused at to how far to go for a friend. I guess drawing the line is an issue, I always thought friends were supposed to support each other though everything, thick and thin.

thanks so much for taking the time to answer, and you brought up some really good points :)