the guy I like at work "update".....

Aug 13, 2008 10:28

I think I posted like a month ago about this guy I like at my work...this is an update ( Read more... )

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hoodwink August 13 2008, 15:01:03 UTC
Have you ever heard of "The Secret"? Basically it's about the theory of attraction or something along those lines. What you believe/think/do you will attract to yourself, so when you say that every other guy you've liked/pursued has ended up going badly, you're basically not expecting any better and you're setting yourself up for that to keep happening. You're attracting more bad experiences by concentrating on what has happened previously.

STOP focusing on what has gone wrong in the past. Be yourself. Be honest. but give yourself some credit, and try to keep positive. Instead of worrying about the past, imagine what you want to happen--imagine the best possible scenario. Focus on that.

I bet he already knows you like him, so just go with the flow and stop worrying so much.

~Becky

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scorpio11681 August 13 2008, 15:02:00 UTC
I'll keep that in mind! Thanks for your help!!

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hoodwink August 13 2008, 15:03:55 UTC
Of course:) Its taken a lot for me to change my way of thinking but you might be surprised what happens when you do!

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