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undertheecovers in advice_source

Need a Little Advice..

Nov 13, 2008 18:01

I feel like I've lost myself since my ex-boyfriend & I broke up. I feel like he's taken away my dreams & future wants & I don't know how to get what was once mine back.

Here's the full story

I would really apperciate any help/advice.
Thanks in advance!

insecurities, the past, friendships, exes, relationships, friends

Comments 3

Hi, hoodwink November 14 2008, 05:42:02 UTC

You sort of gave yourself some advice within your post:

"I feel that people cause their own problems & refuse to change b/c it's easier not too.Why do you feel your sense of self is so dependent on the ex? How did he steal your dream? Yes, he was wrong, yes he hurt you, but only you have the power to let go of what happened. and if you can't, you might want to seek counseling. Sometimes a person needs guidance to find their way ( ... )

P.S. hoodwink November 14 2008, 18:49:29 UTC

People might be more willing to leave advice if they didn't have to click the link to get to your journal. You can always copy/paste it into a separate entry for the community.:)

_insanity_lost November 15 2008, 02:44:32 UTC

I think I recognize your LJ username and I may have already told you somewhere else that I think you should read "It's called a breakup because it's broken" however, I might be totally wrong and just having major deja-vu but it's a really, really good book on ex's and backsliding (even though I can't seem to take my own advice ( ... )