Sparks vs Slow burning fire

Jul 15, 2009 23:21

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hoodwink July 17 2009, 01:23:55 UTC
Hi ( ... )

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irishjewel413 July 21 2009, 06:02:05 UTC
I chose to comment on your post because I've been there. I've dated a lot of guys and sometimes it's instant chemistry, instant physical attraction. And then that added to same interests and clicking personality, it makes it more intense. However I have absolutely been in situations where I met a guy and I loved hanging with him because we had so much in common and just clicked with our personalities and like you said, they would be fairly attactive. But nothing, just nothing would happen.

Sometimes I tried to make it happen, meaning I would turn it into a romantic relationship when all the while it was clearly not working because there was no physical chemistry there. Now that is not to say it couldn't develop. It's so hard to tell though so all I could tell you to do is don't give up, keep dating and see what happens.

If after a while you never get to that point of liking them in both ways I would suggest what hoodwink said. It's happened to me several times, so you aren't alone. Hope I could help :o)

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ne_jyam March 13 2010, 10:43:09 UTC
This is a really old post, but I figured I'd throw in my two cents ( ... )

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