Comments | aerolines: forgive sounds good, forget

aerolines

forgive sounds good, forget - i'm not sure i could.

Jul 12, 2006 15:07

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chaoticflair July 13 2006, 01:18:36 UTC

i agree with heartsburst..
also remember that trust is on the line now, since he broke it the last time .. you'll be second guessing everything he says hoping that he is doing what he say he is doing and not the opposite..
just be very very careful ♥

insideout July 13 2006, 01:51:47 UTC

I agree with first comment completely - there is no "I'll try", no in between. You accepting him back if he says he'll only try isn't good enough, you're better than that and deserve better. Let him know you deserve better and that only trying is unacceptable, he has to promise to never do it again. Ever.
Hopefully he is going to be understanding when you second guess everything he says, and if he knows what's good for him he won't say anything about it. It's going to take a long time to build that trust up again, and until that happens he's just going to have to accept it.
I really hope everything works out for you, but remember that you deserve the absolute best and don't settle for anything less. You can make this work again, if that's what your heart wants. Good luck!

aerolines July 13 2006, 02:45:58 UTC

ah, see that's what noone understands... i'm not stupid, we've had a hundred talks about this already. he does understand that i don't trust him & won't for a long time, as well as understanding that i will probably never forgive him. he gets that this isn't going to be some easy happy-go-lucky relationship now where we just forget about what happened & put it behind us, yknow? i'm not just giving up & being silly, i'm just not telling you guys every detail of everything that has happened between us since we broke up & all of our conversations & such, because that would make for horrifically long, boring entries ( ... )

zazzay July 13 2006, 04:13:20 UTC

I don't think that any of us think that you're stupid at all. We're just concerned, ya know? It's hard not to wonder why you're going back to him. With my boyfriend, I tell myself I'd leave him in a flash if he cheated on me, but I know that is completely easier said than done. Especially if the cheating instance was under the influence, or something that doesn't seem very serious, like a kiss. We're just assuming that he has done the worst and cheated on you and had sex with them, or something of that sort ( ... )