Comments | aeshnor: new spins on old tricks. today: invisibility

aeshnor

new spins on old tricks. today: invisibility

Apr 16, 2008 02:03

I think that yet again, I have managed to make a virtue into a vice through overdoing it ( Read more... )

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polyemtgirl April 16 2008, 07:26:02 UTC

*hugs* Will we see you at the great excavation this weekend?

aeshnor April 16 2008, 16:41:15 UTC

yes, for at least some of it.

aeshnor April 16 2008, 09:51:08 UTC

I didn't do it, did I? I LOVES you! This is why we are doing thai chi together soon! So we have something to do together! *HUGS* Let me know if I ever become a problem, please. Then I can take measures to fix it.

obie April 16 2008, 12:54:55 UTC

sadly...

I know that this is a simple login issue..

but damn thats a funny read.

aeshnor April 16 2008, 15:23:48 UTC

oh, miss jade. forgot to log me out before posting, eh?
i know you loves me. this isnt about one person, and it isnt about any of them not loving me. in fact, its really me taking responsibility for not making my needs known so they can be met.
and you know perfectly well that you and i have some level of this problem at least at times. but we've been working on it a while.
its migrated to be everywhere in my life now, is all.

purlav April 16 2008, 13:32:54 UTC

I hear that. That happens to me too. I get taken for granted because I'm usually pretty quiet and don't demand all that much attention. I try to speak up if I am feeling neglected without waiting until I'm in desperate need of someone. I used to do that, just wait until i exploded with need.. Bad idea... So just speak up occasionally... quietly... *hugs*

chicabelle16 April 17 2008, 14:18:43 UTC

I'm re-arranging life-things so that I won't push you aside anymore. <3 I love you.

aeshnor April 17 2008, 19:20:56 UTC

i love you too, dearest. And dont go crazy with it. But I do appreciate it. Not exactly used to getting a real response to this kind of thing :P
and know that its not that you've been pushing me away. you haven't, at least as far as i'm concerned. for it to be pushing, i'd have to be pulling. and i'm not. i just get kindof... lost.
actually, that goes for everyone this applies to.
and yes that means its not just you.
k. done now. love you, thank you, hope all is well with you today.

dncingmalkavian April 17 2008, 19:13:40 UTC

We all feel neglected because we're all too busy trying to survive. I'm no exception. I try, but it's hard to really give people all the attention they need and want.