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af_jester

Lost...

May 17, 2009 20:23

Ok...

Some may know that recently i made a trip to Kansas and Oklahoma City. I finally returned home today and im trying to get re-situated.

Here is a back story so that my issue can be further understood.

In January, a friend of mine, well... more like a brother... moved in w/ me just prior to his deployment to help him out. Along with him ( Read more... )

help, cheaters

Comments 4

bitty1721 May 18 2009, 05:44:11 UTC

Hmmm..that is quite a dilenma. I guess I would say...just leave the situation alone unless you happen to find more evidence because like you said, it could be her sister and just coming out and saying "hey man, I think this might be happening..." would be you being messy and spreading stuff that she might be innocent about.

If for some reason you do find evidence that she's being unfaithful beside the test....then sure go for it. As a friend/brother, that's a good thing to do I believe. But even then, give some time before you even do that...give her a chance to come clean, as cheating is a big thing to confess; pregnancy from that cheating is even bigger and she could be just thinking of what to say. BUT YOU NEED TO BE ABOSOLUTELY sure or you are going to be in the wrong.

Anyway...I hope I helped some...I tend to get long winded when I'm trying to help

solemezzanotte May 18 2009, 23:39:21 UTC

I have to agree with the above commenter.

I would leave it alone for now. I know it *looks* fishy, but who knows what it REALLY is. Now if you find further evidence that she is cheating, then absolutely be a great friend and let him know.

For now, I'd leave it be. Just keep your eyes open.

shorty1012 May 19 2009, 19:39:11 UTC

If its the Tony I remember,wow!! You know what I would say Chris.

kohakushinju June 5 2009, 01:51:13 UTC

Sorry, I'm gonna go the opposite than the other comments.

Bring it up, be honest, and tell her yo weren't snooping because you had to go to the bathroom. Address the issue, and go off what she says if you tell your friend.
BTW, not all women are unfaithful (cheaters). I am of your opposite sex and never had an issue with that, although i have met some males who have cheated on me.