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[x_dingbat_x]

why did he have to go and break up with me BECAUSE i got an abortion?! i don't friggin' understand... he said it he didn't mind! but as soon as it happens, he tells me he wanted me to keep her. thanks, man! THE ONLY REASON I DECIDED TO DO IT WAS BECAUSE WE HAVE NO MONEY, AND NO REASON ELSE. i love him so friggin' much that i would have kept her :

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[rawness]

Things can change for both parties after an abortion. Maybe he thought he was okay with you doing it and then after it happened, he wasn't. You need to sit down and talk to him about it. Really talk.

[eyelid]

Rawness may be right, but frankly it sounds to me like K's attitude has nothing to do with the abortion. Sometimes guys use abortion as an easy excuse to leave... Same way as they'd use a baby as an easy excuse to leave. "I never wanted you to get an abortion/have a baby."

"i was in the princeton house (mental hospital) because of you, i hope you're happy". What is THAT supposed to mean? What an assholish thing to say! I know you care about K, but it seems like he's only hurting you with his hot/cold treatment. I think the best thing you could do is just to tell him how you feel and try to get him to explain where he's coming from. And I wouldn't take any more lame guilt trips from him. You didn't do anything wrong. He is guilt-tripping you to put you at a disadvantage, and that's inappropriate and mean