Comments | afterabortion: Help girls

babybeebee in afterabortion

Help girls

Feb 11, 2006 15:41

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uhohlissa February 12 2006, 04:34:36 UTC

I won't say anything about your mother's choice, because honestly I would think she was trying to act in your best interest, as parents do, even if you didn't agree. It WAS unfair that you were essentially blackmailed into the procedure, but try to see it as her trying to protect you - explanation: Try to see things her way. You are 18, with no car, no insurance, and (assumably, since you have no insurance) not a great job. Raising a child is tough enough with two parents who can easily provide for their child, and added hardships like no transportation and no health insurance make it even tougher ( ... )

eyelid February 12 2006, 21:17:26 UTC

I know you might think Im a pig for having abortion at 18 weeks,No one here would ever think such a thing, let alone say it! No one here has walked in your shoes, and none of us will judge you. You don't need to worry about that ( ... )

babybeebee February 12 2006, 21:27:00 UTC

Hi,

thanks for replying. Today I don't even want to see my man let alone have a baby with him, we got in a fight and I want to run away.

eyelid February 13 2006, 00:14:24 UTC

Well, luckily there's no reason you can't leave him if you decide that's what you want :)

notquite_pretty February 23 2006, 05:08:26 UTC

god, i know what thats like.
its like its one thing to say you've had one, but then when you say how late all of a sudden you feel like a monster. I had mine at 18 weeks too. And i saw the feet. i don't think ive been the same since.

*hug* you're not alone either. thanks for sharing that, it's really hard for me to admit when i had mine, its nice to know someone else feels the same. well maybe not nice but... you know.

cathubodva March 8 2006, 23:44:11 UTC

She wouldnt talk to me or give me money unless I had an abortion.

It was wrong of your mom to pressure you into having an abortion, but it's certainly within her rights to say she isn't going to support you if you're pregnant.

I'm sorry that you're regretting the decision.