vent/advice needed

[fluffybunnies97]

OK so yeah, me and my marine fight and argue time to time. But this most recent one was by far our largest fight. It started probably due to me holding a giant grudge against him, but only realizing it now. I love him, but I still cant let go of what happened in the past and sometimes when I reflect upon it now, that vision of the past worsens and

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[eyelid]

I cant forgive him of how he treated me last year when I was pregnant. Here's how I see it: he treated you badly, basically abandoning you in your time of need and pressuring you - of course you resent it

[bankrobberzkid]

I am going through the same thing you are. And not for the first time. I know that any amount of advice anybody tries to give me at this point would be a waste of time, because I have so many of my own strong feelings surrounding me right now, which is why i won't even try to give you advice. But I can't stop myself from telling you that I know you are doing the right thing by standing up for yourself no matter how sure you are about it. We have to hope that one day a man will come along into our lives that will bring a sense of completion, that our loved ones will welcome and approve of, and until then, we have to not make any dire mistakes. It might be compared to eating an under-ripe fruit without trying to look for the one that is ripe. At least, that's what I feel like I am going through right now.