Nothing really significant, but I just feel like it....

[ageha_ya]

Tomorrow I basically find out if I'll be living up in Mount Prospect again or making a permanent move back here. Pros and cons to both, but honestly? I don't want to dwell on it right now.

As of late, mom and I have been cleaning in the upstairs closet and it looks tons better than it previously did. You can actually walk right into it and see

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[caffeinatedjedi]

You already know how Bryce and I met (I hope!): OkCupid. He sent me a message saying something like "I see from your profile that you like Doctor Who. We should watch it together sometime." So we exchanged a few emails and eventually phone numbers. He called me first, but I missed his call,it took me a few days to work up the nerve to return the call (and rehearse what I was going to say). But I DID, and we went on a few dates...and 3 years later, we are each other's creepy internet stalkers spouses. XD

[caffeinatedjedi]

*and it took

[anonymous]

For me it's because the guy instigates interest, not necessarily our previous relation to each other. I am unhelpful. :p

[mochibuni]

THAT WAS ME.

[ageha_ya]

Heh, nah, I was just wondering how it was or how it generally is for everyone. ;p

For example: I don't really count the two boyfriends I had in high school because both were extremely short and aside from homecoming, never ended up going on a date (gawd), BUT...in one case I'd been friends with one of them for three years, in the other, it was just general attraction. ;p

And Rei, I am all for creepy internet spouses. You guys certainly aren't the first of the people I know who got together online (my friend Maki ended up marrying a guy from Belgium! ;p They now have a very adorable little girl).

[mochibuni]

I've dated guys who were and weren't my friend to begin with, so yeah. XD I know some of my guy friends have/had crushes on me and many of them have never approached me for whatever reason, probably fear, which makes sense. I more often am approached by guys who don't really know me, and it's easier for them to gauge my actual interest in them that way.

However, even though it's easier to be rejected without having any sort of tie to the person, I wish the guys would get to know me first. Actually, it's one of the reasons I don't like being approached because I want the guy to get to know me before he makes a decision to want to have a relationship with me, and usually they're approaching me because they think my face is pretty or my boobs are big or something.

Initial attraction is indeed important, I just wish they'd do a better job at at least pretending to be interested in who I actually am. :p