dont do anyones laundry or cook anyones food except for you and grey and see how long it takes them to do it. they just dont realize how much it takes out of you to take care of grey AND do housework AND have a little time for yourself to run and enjoy being you. screw em!
I do the laundry all together because its easier for me to get a full load.
I also get to add in taking Grey to his preschool/speech twice a week [might be 3 times if they want speech separate], and while later on I can stay outside, for now I'm in the class with him till he is comfortable with the separation and I help out in there with all the kids and will be required to do so once every 4 weeks...but I don't get anything done while there since I can't really "leave the building" or maybe I could if I absolutely had to.
I just want them to help out and without me asking over and over again, because then it turns into a argument or someone making a snide remark. Last night I got my mother to take out the trash [which she hardly ever does] and she bitched as I was also taking out the old shower liners that I changed out saying "I don't know why Nick couldn't do this"..gah! well she didn't want to dig in the storage closet to get out the fall decorations and I got him to do that...so stuff it old biddy.
dude. dont EVER be sorry for getting out emotions you cant get out otherwise. i understand how you can be so upset. i just read your newest post (sorry it took so long to get back to you) and i want to come get you and bring you here. i really think you should take a minivacation. even if its like 20 miles away and staying in a cute hotel with an indoor pool or something. just you and grey. or even just you but i know you probably dont wanna leave grey. i know they wont die without you or anything crazy, but maybe theyll realize that shit doesnt get done without you. screw everyone but grey. honestly.
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they just dont realize how much it takes out of you to take care of grey AND do housework AND have a little time for yourself to run and enjoy being you.
screw em!
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I also get to add in taking Grey to his preschool/speech twice a week [might be 3 times if they want speech separate], and while later on I can stay outside, for now I'm in the class with him till he is comfortable with the separation and I help out in there with all the kids and will be required to do so once every 4 weeks...but I don't get anything done while there since I can't really "leave the building" or maybe I could if I absolutely had to.
I just want them to help out and without me asking over and over again, because then it turns into a argument or someone making a snide remark. Last night I got my mother to take out the trash [which she hardly ever does] and she bitched as I was also taking out the old shower liners that I changed out saying "I don't know why Nick couldn't do this"..gah! well she didn't want to dig in the storage closet to get out the fall decorations and I got him to do that...so stuff it old biddy.
sorry vent
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i understand how you can be so upset.
i just read your newest post (sorry it took so long to get back to you) and i want to come get you and bring you here.
i really think you should take a minivacation. even if its like 20 miles away and staying in a cute hotel with an indoor pool or something.
just you and grey. or even just you but i know you probably dont wanna leave grey.
i know they wont die without you or anything crazy, but maybe theyll realize that shit doesnt get done without you.
screw everyone but grey.
honestly.
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