For my own reasons....

[agravain]

I want to know how the fuck you people can take "them" in general back, time and fucking time again, when they are unfaithful to you, when they bitch you out, lie, cheat, and everything else I've heard that has happened to one of you on here

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[agravain]

We'll see how that one turns on. I don't doubt your sincerity. I doubt whether your heart will follow the same line as your mind, and because your heart is stronger than any mind, it is what you'll follow.

[agravain]

Well... I once thought so. But see, the problem is that without conflict nothing ever changes. Not to sound like an evil genius, but destruction literally does breed creation. And it's healthy for bad habits to be destroyed. And if you don't fix whats making you unhappy then you'll only grow even more unhappy.

I dunno. Random break downs that need explanation are annoying in this way. *sigh*

[agravain]

Shoot and a miss hun. It was about everyone in general. Emotional things like this don't single out people in my case.

Ok. I get the point. He's a real sweetheart. And you've known him longer. And all that other good stuff that I'm not discrediting. I won't even say your discrediting my feelings. Yes, I have loved. No, it wasn't returned in any real way. Your not the only broken heart left among the wreckage. And I'm not questioning your love for him, or why you keep away from physical contact.

What I'm asking is why when they do something wrong do you cling to them? Again, a broad question in general. I understand. I understand all to damn well. You know I have slight empathy. Tie that in with personal experience and I relate.

[sirthinkalot]

Brother Dearest,
I know where you are comming from. And the answer IN MY OPINION (Capped cuz i know sum1 i dont know is gunna attack this post if i dont put this, never fails) is Comfort Levels/Zones. Ill finish this reply on my lj.

Completely off subject, this is post is none of my business anyway. ;)

[skinnijeans]

Patrickthan, I got your christmas card in the mail and im in LOOOOVE with it! I sent you back a letter! <3

Re: Completely off subject, this is post is none of my business anyway. ;)

[agravain]

Awesome. I'll send you a letter back.

Re: Completely off subject, this is post is none of my business anyway. ;)

[skinnijeans]

be sure to make it all patrick-fied!

Re: Completely off subject, this is post is none of my business anyway. ;)

[agravain]

Is it ever anything but all patrick-fied?

[azibeth]

you make sense bro. I myself am very guilty of said stupidity. And yes it's stupid. Because you can hope you'll be enough, and they'll love you and not cheat on you again or whatever. But it takes 2 people to make a relationship work. One person can not love and want it enough for both people. It just doesn't work that way. And people who cheat or whatever the problem is (if they keep cheating) it's most likely because either the other person waits around, and lets it happen, and will take them back regardless OR because they just don't care about the person their with enough to be faithful. I can't say for sure, I've not cheated on anyone. Somewhere out there are nice guys ( you are one... i think :P) who are looking at it going wtf? but again, it seems nobody to very few people actually wants to be with the nice girl. Because that would mean a relationship, where as the bad girls are quick fixes. *See "To Nice Girls The sad truth" I don't feel like saying the gist all over again

[agravain]

*nods and hugs* Yeah. Life and love sucks ^-^;;