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agreed_oxymoron

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Mar 07, 2005 20:42

O.k. so I dont know anyone anymore. I will say this. You all need to stop fucking, drinking, doing drugs, stealing, lying, cheating, and letting your emotions controll you, the way that you are. Things always change for the better. Get your shit together. I'm done.

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spin4life16 March 8 2005, 02:45:38 UTC

so you don't care? well, since i'm not sure how you meant that, and you didn't see fit to clarify, i'll take it as my ticket to tell you exactly what i think: you're so fucking stuck in you're own morals, that you condemn others who don't follow the same, even when you yourself are guilty of some of the actions you listed above. i know i'm not perfect, but i get mad at other people who don't live according to the same standards i do. maybe if you grew a backbone and didn't let people walk all over you, and didn't take everything other people did personally, then you wouldn't mind so much. if you live according to other people's rules and expectations, you'll never find your own, and you'll never have any fun. and that's what life is about, enjoying it. you have to do things for yourself, and i can gaurantee no one who sees this is going to stop what they're doing that you don't agree w/ simply b/c you said they should, i know i'm not, and i really couldn't give a damn as to whether or not you cared. i decide what i will and ( ... )

spin4life16 March 8 2005, 02:46:47 UTC

i made a mistake
"but i DON'T get mad at other people who don't lve according..."

agreed_oxymoron March 8 2005, 04:12:29 UTC

this is going to sound ass of me but i dont care anymore what people think and according to you thats having a bcakbone so to quote you i believe

"maybe if you grew a backbone and didn't let people walk all over you, and didn't take everything other people did personally, then you wouldn't mind so much. if you live according to other people's rules and expectations, you'll never find your own, an"

why did you take this so personally?

but ur right, i should stop worrying about other ppl. so, from now on i dont care. and this actually was one of the things i was gonna ask for help on (ill explain it all later)

right, so. cheerio!

twistdfairychld March 8 2005, 16:46:07 UTC

its not about not caring marcus, its about not being such a pompus buthole b/c you don't agree with what we do. WE don't want you to stop worrying about we want you to trust us and know that we know what were doing and we'll be ok ok? WE still love you dearly, but you think that we've changed, well, you have too. Alot more than you think.

twistdfairychld March 8 2005, 02:52:25 UTC

right on sister... marcus hun, no offense but a lot of those points she made are valide. Just because the two of used have chagned lately, it doesn't mean were not the same people deep down. Please see that what we are doing, as it might not be good for us, has helped the both of us in the past few months. Don't worry we look out for each oter, i wouldn't let her get hurt and i know the same goes for her. Just stop trying to mold us into the "perfect friends" that you want us to be ok?

agreed_oxymoron March 8 2005, 04:07:40 UTC

i just want to see you guys happy with your decisions down the road, because i can say im not happy with some of mine. hope you girls enjoy life.

majescka March 8 2005, 07:27:23 UTC

gotta say something kk and becky,
marcus is acting a lot more mature than both of you. i know it isnt my business. obviously he cares about you otherwise he wouldnt say what he said. both of you need to realize that instead of taking it personally. if you act like this in college people wont like you. it is very mean to make nasty comments on someone's lj, especially when they dont mention your name to be polite. this is his journal. you need to respect it and he allows you to make comments so dont abuse it. marcus is younger than both of you and supposedly girls mature faster. you need to set an example for him not vice versa. i can be very bitchy when i know i am right.

twistdfairychld March 8 2005, 16:48:18 UTC

your right jesse its not your business and you probably don't know the whole story so please stay out of this. WEre bieng mature by trying to show him why were doing what were doing, and asking him not to preach so please stay out of this b/c i don't want to get mad at you for not knowing whats going on k hun? (none of this is in a malevolent manner just trying to ask nicely that you stay out.) THis goes to anyone else who wants to add their 2 cents k? Thank you.

agreed_oxymoron March 8 2005, 20:44:21 UTC

since when was this about just you and kk? i never said that. and jess does have a right, its my lj. and what story? im just confused.

twistdfairychld March 8 2005, 21:36:06 UTC

i never said it was. Yes its your lj, i never said she didn't have a right, i said it wasn't her business b/c she doesn't know the story. Yea you might be talking about other people as well, but most of your comments like this have been directed towards the two of us. Whether you admit it or not.

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ansacht March 8 2005, 21:41:23 UTC

Hey. SHIT happens. I don't think Marcus is particularly pointing to people. I think it's a Marcus rant. What Marcus is just trying to say is to look towards the long term effects rather than the short term.
Sometimes not caring is good because it controls your emotions. When you don't care you don't feel. Being apathetic is like an inner anesthetic. I do it all the time, I keep a cool head that way.

He's just looking out for ya, doesn't mean you should follow him. He's just given his 2 cents in.

*please don't hate me*

the clones say... twistdfairychld March 8 2005, 22:04:43 UTC

i don't hate you we were just trying to show him our view of this, he's trying to tell us what to do and we have heard it so many times b4. WE know that he doens't like what we do together (i know that sounds wrong but w/e) but obviously were going to do it wheather he likes it or not, i mean if we don't even listen to our parents what makes him think we'll listen to him telling us not to. b/c in the end its our choice. And we've asked him b4 to keep comments like this to a minimum. w/e im done im not mad at n e one so please don't b mad at me

Re: the clones say... ansacht March 9 2005, 00:03:35 UTC

I'm not mad at anyone. Especially not you...

guineapigrodeo March 8 2005, 22:47:40 UTC

as one of the lead purveyours of alcohol, parties, sex, and breaking the rules in general, let me throw a word in. what's going on here is that there are concerns that the habits in question will have self-destructive consequences for people that are obviously very cared about and thought highly of in this livejournal circle of friendship. there is frustration felt on one side that these feelings of concern are not being relieved, whereas the frustration felt by the other side deals more with what these strong and independent persons percieve as a nagging, 'thanks MOM' aspect of the voiced concerns. the concerns noted in this post must have hit close to home for such a personal and inflammatory response, but that is no reason for insults and name-calling. therein lies the only example of the aformentioned immaturity within this entire conversation. this issue has nothing to do with immaturity or age. this has nothing to do with someone trying to alter or control someone else's life or lifestyle. all that this post wanted, though ( ... )

agreed_oxymoron March 9 2005, 00:48:01 UTC

thanks man.

majescka March 9 2005, 02:21:52 UTC

you rock my world marcus. you are very wise beyond your years. :o) too bad you arent older.

spin4life16 March 9 2005, 03:20:02 UTC

w/e