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ajs090901

Long time

Feb 11, 2006 12:56

well kids how is everyone? im doing very well. lets see im turning 20 in no time. Its going to be andrews and i 6 month on my birthday wich i thought was cool. its so odd. we both never thought that our relationship would be so perfect but it is. i mean we have stupid little stuff but the thing is is that we always resolve it and then are perfectly ( Read more... )

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anonymous February 14 2006, 01:04:38 UTC

the first thing im going to say is WOW. thats amazing. whatever makes you happy. its kinda funny how things work out for the best. im wondering why you only said such a small amount on pat going florida. i think hes doing what is the best for him. i really dont think he is trying to find himself though. i think he knows exactly where he is and what he wants to do. you should be happy for him and thats all i have to say about that. you seem to have found a sort of happiness in your whatever with "andrew". the happiest you have been in a "really long time". i hope pat doesnt here that. it would kinda sting a little bit. second thing im going to say is i think that the friends that left is kinda a double edge sword. yes some did leave but some were forgotten about for one reason or another. i dont know why but it seems that that is what is the reality. the pictures are interesting. what a difference the pictures show. from one era to another. anyway. i think taht your math is off by a little bit though on your anniversery. but anyway. ( ... )

ajs090901 February 20 2006, 23:14:40 UTC

hey so nice of you to say who you are im sure that was your way of showing that you really care. Anyways the only thing i really have to say to you is that i started dating andrew on the 28th of August so DO YOUR MATH smart ass. And really who are you to tell me things that you really dont know. I only said a small amount about pat because i didnt want people to jump down my throat but i guess that happened anyways. I think that pat is doing what is best for him and need i remind you who ever you are that we broke up in the begging of july. Um i dont think you know pat as well as i do and believe it or not i talk to him regularly so i think i know where he is at and why he went so thanks for trying to educate me but i already am. Im sorry by the way that i never kept in touch with you maybe i never really felt a connection that i wanted to keep.I truly hope that this isnt christine because that would break my heart since i love her to death but i think this might be someone that was in that group and in that case please feel free to ( ... )

I have to agree with... anonymous February 14 2006, 16:26:34 UTC

with whoever posted a comment before this. Isn't it funny that you said the same things about Pat when you started dating him way back when? Maybe it's something you say about everyone, but then after time goes by they discover the real you. I'd have to say that after talking to Pat, this is the best thing that could have happened to him in the long run. Pat's known who he is for awhile now, and didn't need to move to Florida to "find himself down there." You don't see it because you are the one who can't grow up, and really needs to see that you aren't the greatest thing to ever walk on this Earth. It's a possiblity that everything is going so "perfect" with "Andrew," but that's probably because he just hasn't seen the real person that you are yet. Give it time though, it will all come around with time. "We act the same way its so odd..." - does that mean that you both act like immature children, who still haven't grown up yet? Generally as people get older, they grow up. I'm not sure that's the case with you though. I think with ( ... )

Re: I have to agree with... sh0ot4thestarz February 20 2006, 03:27:37 UTC

So, i haven’t signed on to LJ in quite some time... but i don’t think it's fair that Amanda is getting bashed by people who don't even sign their names. talk about being oh so mature. Something tells me that I have a few ideas who you two may be… but I also could be wrong. In either case, why are you so bent on the past? Everyone has made mistakes in their lives. I have no doubt in my head that Amanda did love Pat. People grow and people change. These two comments are proof of that. You two, I imagine, were friends with Amanda at some point in time. Everyone deserves to be happy… and a lot of the time, that means moving on. Yes, this is the happiest Amanda has been in a while. She’s getting her life together and figuring out what she wants. She was a little bit of a wreck after her and Pat broke up, whether or not you believe it. Between finding someone that can make her comfortable and happy again, and getting other things in her life straight, and finding something that she knows she loves to do… yeah-I would imagine that that ( ... )

Re: I have to agree with... red_dragon2208 February 20 2006, 17:54:39 UTC

I definitely agree with emmy on that point: I also know for a fact that manda loved pat. Back when her and i were close, and would talk giddily in the middle of the night about our relationships, it was extremely apparent. I agree, actually i know, that people change as they grow, some for the best, and others...not so much. I know for sure that i have changed, and so has everyone that i know. Theyre exposed to new people, new experiences, and new circumstances. Sometimes...feelings just...change, dissolve. I had that happen to me rather recently, came out of a relationship that was relatively 4 years long. Something felt different to me. I knew I loved him, as i always will. But i questioned whether or not i was 'in' love with him still. Did i hurt him by being honest and letting him go? yes, but in the long run it is for the best, it allows for moving on, starting over, and finding happiness in the world again. the human 'heart', human emotion, are quite tricky things while also being extremely fragile ( ... )

Re: I have to agree with... ajs090901 February 20 2006, 23:53:29 UTC

Thanks for standing up for me. You know that i would do the same for you.

From Someone who is not afraid to show their name! jrodcbass February 20 2006, 16:49:10 UTC

As i sit here and read all this HIGHSCHOOL bullshit, i sit here and ponder to myself if i should drop to the levels that were reached in the earlier replies, and as much as i would want to say what i want to, people who know me well enough know that i wont, I'm not mean like that, I've always preached that about myself. But i will go on and say that i do see something wrong in leaving a 3 year (or was it 4, i dont remember i was written off for 8 months) relationship, i do agree with emily, people do grow and change, sometimes away from eachother, but i think its wrong to do so in the arms of another person RIGHT afterwards. Now i am no saint here, i've cheated and been cheated on, i've seen all there is to see out of relationships short of marriage, and i do believe that what went on should have been handled differently. I think maybe pat should have been treated better in the end of it all. but whats done is done. seeing how im obviously no longer a part of 2 of the 4 people in this entry/replies, I wish thee all a good life.

If you want to know the truth here it is. track2003 February 20 2006, 17:18:35 UTC

I'm not going to lie, but I think that what has happened is absolutely ridiculous. I understand, as Jared said, that people change as time passes. The thing that got to me has to do with a relationship that I was in for a period of time. When everything happened with John, you didnt agree with the way things went down. Yet, it's pretty much the same thing that happened in this case. I guess I just found that interesting. If you found someone that makes you happy then great, but it could have happened in a different way. I have no doubt that you weren't upset about things ending, but how upset can you truly be if you already were in a relationship? That's all I wondered. Pat and I may not hang out all the time, but he is my brother and I do care about what happens to him. The timing was just really horrible ( ... )

Re: If you want to know the truth here it is. ajs090901 February 20 2006, 23:43:57 UTC

well to you all i have to say is that you never liked me and its a mutual thing. I just dont understand why you always felt the need to bash me behind my back why you could never do it to my face but then again im the childish immature one right. I talked to your brother and he told me not to drop to your level and he always did. i guess thats just him looking out for your well being. I dont really know why you took the need to be so mean because its not necessary. Pat knows the real me and he loved me for it and im sorry that i lost the one special feeling that i needed in order to be in a relationship with him. Really how many boyfriends did you have while i dated your brother and you said the same thing. I just hope that we end up better then all of your so called relationships and really how can you honestly sit there and try and lecture me. WOW reality check miss princess. Any ways as to the fact of telling me that im regressing well i have not seen ya in a long time so A you cant say that. B the last time i really saw you, you ( ... )

Re: If you want to know the truth here it is. track2003 February 21 2006, 05:30:47 UTC

If that's how you feel, well I'm sorry you don't know the truth. You have no clue the relationship I have with Pat, or what it's really gone through within our lives. You think that you know all about my life, but you really don't The things you heard from Pat were all when he was mad about things, stressed out, or upset about other stuff. So you heard one side of the story. That's fine if you want to think you know all about me. As for my relationship with my parents, I guess you just dont understand what it's like to be close, and be able to tell them anything. I'm not wasting my time meeting up with you either...has nothing to do with my being scared of it. It would honestly just be a waste of free time that I actually have. I don't need to "hash" things out with you. Everything has been said. I hope you're happy with Andrew. Don't worry, I'm glad the feelings mutual about never talking again. Have a great life doing whatever makes you happy.

And now for the rest of the story.... anonymous February 20 2006, 20:38:20 UTC

Well all. Seeing I don’t have one of these stupid ass live journal accounts I shall be know only as déjà vu or anonymous or pat. Whatever you wish. Everyone seeks happiness with whatever is done in their lives. I have found happiness after I was crushed. It sucked. I may have said some not nice things to some people about what had happened. Had quite a few talks with Jared if memory serves me correctly. Any who. Ripping new assholes to each other is not fun. It may seem that it is but in the end it just makes it so you can’t sit down ( ... )

Re: And now for the rest of the story.... sh0ot4thestarz February 21 2006, 02:25:37 UTC

(Hi pat, its emily! this may not be the right place, considering the rediculously immature topic of conversation, hehe... but i just wanted to say hi and that i really do hope that youre having a good time in florida and that everything is ok :) i miss you.. and i really hope that you do believe that.)