Holidays!

[akifall]

hehe, I've been leaving my LJ sitting here looking pretty lately ^^; Been pre-occupied with thousands of other things so I've just left my blog for awhile. Recently the forums I moderate opened back so I've been moderating the forum and spending my time there with the politics.. who would have thought OAC and OP would become useful in dealing with

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[sufyan]

Mapping the political field I see... oh the horror...

Geek! I need to get you a geek t-shirt =)

[sufyan]

http://www.thinkgeek.com/tshirts/generic/6111/

Perfect!

[akifall]

LOL Heeey! That's mean! And it's a centered word 'GEEK' as well T_T They couldn't have made it any more obvious!

[gurumi_sunday]

I reckon u have what it takes to become a super-woman! Just keep working hard and u'll get there easily :D

lol u geekz0r XP

[akifall]

o.O I don't want to become a super-woman.. I want to be a super-bum.. one that sits at home and gets fed without working :D Can I easily become that as well?? :P

[lcz128]

Hullo? :| Is this who I fink it ish? :O *waves* *salute*

[akifall]

Nope :D *thwap*
Where you come from?!

[thatisqt]

Conflict resolution =P

Heheh... Miss Independent ^_^

The ultimate Geek Mod ... Uwah. Uwah~!

[akifall]

LoL conflict resolution.. nah uh.. I was part of the conflict haha, poor guy felt so disappointed after I presented my case and the 'judge' (admin) made his decision.

Shhhh no one knows I'm the geek mod :P

[thejonster33]

hey! :D

ahha it's not easy being a man either :D

seriously though, i don't think it makes too much difference between the sexes on who you rely on. "But I don't want to rely on them, get use to it then lose it all." Lose it all? as in become soft? i do believe it's a little harder for women, but drive in workplace circumstances is a little scary, as most 'super women' tend to think (rightly or wrongly) that they need to out-guy the guys which is in itself quite scary. That unrelentless drive and singlemindedness plus a little bit more.

i actually disagree though. I think there always needs to be a bit of reliance. Like the old cliche, 'behind every great man, is a great woman.' and i think that's very true. Maybe behind every great woman needs to be someone too? If not and you never relied on anyone, even though you may have found 'success' the world would be a lonely lonely place... just my opinion though...

ahha i don't know whether i'm still on your same topic though... :D

[akifall]

Haha ofcourse we rely a bit. Whenever people are successful they thank their family members maybe friends. But yeah reliance the movie was talking about was the relationship type one - love, significant other. I did a bad job at explaining that ^^;;

But I think with every type of relationship.. if you suddenly lose it, it's hard because the person you were so use to being there suddenly isn't. But you're right, if we didn't have all that, then the world would be a very lonely and probably unhappy place. Give and take huh?

LoL the next series is about 'it's not easy being a man' :P

[thejonster33]

Well if we're talking about love. And i've already used ONE overused cliche, i shall use another :D .... it's better to have loved and lost than never loved at all... i don't think you think about losing it. It's something where you are prepared to throw away logic, no need for too much 'risk management' so to speak lol cos i believe the pursuit of love is worth it... no one has to share that belief but it's just one that i have... :D

[akifall]

Hehe true, but still people fear it. Nice to be loved but it can hurt so muchies. It can ruin people. But ofcourse people recover from it ^^

I tend to do a lot of risk management ^^;; Oh noo geekiness .__. haha