Comments | aktivieren: um, yeah, i'm getting secretive.

aktivieren

um, yeah, i'm getting secretive.

May 16, 2005 15:08

because i've gotten some strange feedback from some people about my lj, i've decided to make most of my posts friends-only. i should have done it a long time ago, but i know that sometimes non-lj friends read it. considering that there are things in here that might be best left unknown to certain people who might try to know them, i think this is a ( Read more... )

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psychopomp_dk May 16 2005, 20:12:39 UTC

always women, always women, i have failed to see a guy on here that has a 'friends-only' journal, which leads me to the conclusion it has something to do with the female psychological make-up,
and i'm not sure if it's a good thing.

aktivieren May 16 2005, 20:18:46 UTC

hehe. well, that might have to do with exes and "other ghosts from the past" reading journals that they should care less about. and i'm willing to bet that's a big reason why most women block theirs... because it's always dudes doing the super shady stuff. y'know? ;)

and yeah, also because we're more likely to make posts of emotional substance. not that mine usually are... but i'm sure someone's are.

psychopomp_dk May 16 2005, 20:24:50 UTC

yeah i guess that's where we mos def see things from different perspectives, i've had all sorts of quacks read my journal, twist it around and say a bunch of shit but whatever,
water off a ducks back,
people can talk whatever they want, i am who i am but i don't run or hide from no one, rather the opposite, if someones' got beef i say bring it!

lizature May 16 2005, 20:43:00 UTC

that's why mine's friends only. stupid exes in their 30s that act like 13 year olds.

pursuitofarete May 16 2005, 20:25:27 UTC

I made my journal friends only after googling myself. My journal, old apartment address, old phone number, etc. were all available to the public. There are way too many people out there that I don't want that information made readily available to.
Don't delete it though! :(

P.S. What weekends are you available for visitors? ;)

aktivieren May 16 2005, 20:38:08 UTC

yeah. i'm just trying to make things more private. i just don't think it's anyone's business, and i don't understand why some people are so interested... especially because i always post about stupid shit anyway!

visitors! (oooh! btw, bovie and i've just finalized a ny (coney) trip the weekend of june 4-5; i'll be e-mailing you guys)... gosh. it's scary how quickly my entire summer is filling up! but, these weekends are good: june 11, july 24, and yeah, pretty much any one after that. come see meeeee!

greetings for no reason, but a whim crisger July 31 2006, 20:48:01 UTC

greetings, enjoyed your journal, i suppose your link came up as I posted my schools, perhaps you were or are at Oxford?

I just created a journal for myself on a whim as well, which you may if curious, visit at

http://crisger.livejournal.com/

the dance of the electrons via the internet is quite a remarkable phenomenon, my mental path of wandering came thusly, watching a TV show last night set in Oxford set me to remembering many wonderful days on the Cherwell, and on the Broad, and at the Perch and Trout in Binsey, and I even saw many scenes that I have painted, (see my site if curious about that...) and then following an arcane language lesson in D'ni today found LiveJournal, posted my schools, your link name arrested my eye, and thus this post,
far well and enjoy whatever
chris