Comments | alba_ny: I am okay

alba_ny

I am okay

Oct 03, 2009 22:42

Right now I don't quite feel up to writing anything else.

Thank you all.

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dianyla October 4 2009, 03:28:00 UTC

Where are you? Are you safe?

I just read the previous posts and I'm very concerned about you. *hugs*

alba_ny October 4 2009, 05:21:50 UTC

Tomorrow I will write.
I am home, but I am safe. I wouldn't be here if I thought otherwise. (No drinking.)

There is more I'd say, but I'll just let it all out tomorrow. *sigh*
I keep finding more bruises and capillaries to go with the aches, but Dima, well... he knows this is no joke.

I want to see a councilor tomorrow, this evening everything was closed, but I don't know if they will be tomorrow either?

medvssa October 4 2009, 10:04:33 UTC

Glad to know you are fine, but why are you home? I think it will be easier for you to stay away and not come back.
Are you angry? you should be angry. If you are not angry, well something is wrong, I think you should get out of there, go to friends or family.

alba_ny October 4 2009, 15:13:45 UTC

I am not angry, but certainly confused of how he could do the things he did to me even if drunk. I am sad, lost, and no longer have deep trust, but I am not angry. Funny. Something to think about.

lucidii October 4 2009, 14:00:00 UTC

I'm really concerned, Dawn. Please let us know what happens.

enitsirkz October 4 2009, 14:17:53 UTC

Just as general talk here ( ... )

alba_ny October 4 2009, 15:31:38 UTC

Exactly Enitsirkz ( ... )

dianyla October 4 2009, 18:31:20 UTC

I can understand your willingness to give him another chance based on these circumstances. I still think it's unwise, and that he will eventually be violent to you again.

If I were to consider staying, it would only be on the condition that he goes to AA.

pineapplelisa October 24 2009, 04:14:27 UTC

Hello,
I have been enjoying your journal, and I am friending you. It's okay if you don't want to friend me back. :) I just wanted to let you know!

pineapplelisa October 24 2009, 04:16:30 UTC

I just realized this was a very akward comment to make on this particular post, I just added it because it was the top post. Sorry if it comes across as odd. :(

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Re: Put yourself and your safety first alba_ny December 17 2010, 20:28:44 UTC

Thank you.

I have no plans to be around him whatsoever. I feel no obligations.
Charges are not being dropped, and there is a restraining order.

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