Sometimes, my family is really confusing
I apologize in advance for this angry RL post.
I have two sisters and a brother and they're all older than me. We joke around and laugh with each other. We have a really good relationship. But sometimes, they can be really irritating.
Like today. About twenty minutes ago, to be exact. Sister #2 (it's my oldest sister, my brother, my other sister, and me from oldest to youngest; this situation concerns my sister who's closer to my age) got home from work at about 8:30 and she was in my room using my computer up until around 9:30. I asked her if she was going to eat dinner. She's told me stories about her job and she's mentioned what time she eats lunch, and I knew she hadn't eaten dinner yet. So I asked her if she was going to eat anything. She assumed I wanted her out of my room, which wasn't true; I was just concerned that she hadn't eaten anything. I told her this, and she just said "fine" in a weird turn of voice, like she was frustrated or something and trying to hide it, like what I said pissed her off. I told her she could stay, that I didn't mind her being in my room, but she just said she was done and shut down the computer then left.
After this happened, I felt bad and a little angry. I mean, it was just a simple question, but she acted as if I ordered her to get out of my room, when in reality I was just concerned about her. She made me feel guilty as if I should just mind my own business. It was just a fucking question, it's not as if I interrogated her. She does this sometimes; I show concern and she completely takes it the wrong way and makes me feel guilty. It really pisses me off; I can't stand it. I mean, she's my sister and I love her a lot, but DAMN, CALM THE FUCK DOWN AND DON'T ASSUME THE WORST, GEEZ
I have two sisters and a brother and they're all older than me. We joke around and laugh with each other. We have a really good relationship. But sometimes, they can be really irritating.
Like today. About twenty minutes ago, to be exact. Sister #2 (it's my oldest sister, my brother, my other sister, and me from oldest to youngest; this situation concerns my sister who's closer to my age) got home from work at about 8:30 and she was in my room using my computer up until around 9:30. I asked her if she was going to eat dinner. She's told me stories about her job and she's mentioned what time she eats lunch, and I knew she hadn't eaten dinner yet. So I asked her if she was going to eat anything. She assumed I wanted her out of my room, which wasn't true; I was just concerned that she hadn't eaten anything. I told her this, and she just said "fine" in a weird turn of voice, like she was frustrated or something and trying to hide it, like what I said pissed her off. I told her she could stay, that I didn't mind her being in my room, but she just said she was done and shut down the computer then left.
After this happened, I felt bad and a little angry. I mean, it was just a simple question, but she acted as if I ordered her to get out of my room, when in reality I was just concerned about her. She made me feel guilty as if I should just mind my own business. It was just a fucking question, it's not as if I interrogated her. She does this sometimes; I show concern and she completely takes it the wrong way and makes me feel guilty. It really pisses me off; I can't stand it. I mean, she's my sister and I love her a lot, but DAMN, CALM THE FUCK DOWN AND DON'T ASSUME THE WORST, GEEZ