Comments | alegwyni: Ever Feel Neglected?

alegwyni

Ever Feel Neglected?

Nov 28, 2008 01:39

'Cause it seems to be happening to me more and more often lately. I mean, I know that I can't expect people to devote their every waking moment to me--that just wouldn't be fair. Not to mention, I imagine that I'd get sick of it after a while, too. But when the only interactions with people I get are limited to ten minute intervals (twenty, if they ( Read more... )

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puck48197 November 28 2008, 18:37:53 UTC

Am I that boring? Or are my uses just that limited?
NEITHER ONE!!!
HUGS!!!!

thisbequeerchik November 28 2008, 21:25:53 UTC

"NEITHER ONE!!!"

Ditto. You're awesome. Never (EVER EVER) doubt that. *gives massive HUGS too*

vareth_is December 1 2008, 06:31:29 UTC

:( I hope I'm not one of the reasons for this post.

*hugs* I've been terribly busy with NaNo and just life in general, but it's certainly not a reflection on you. You remain as awesome as you always have been, and you are about the furthest thing from boring. XD

*lovelovelove* Since it's two days after this post that I'm leaving this comment...hopefully you feel better by now? I'll try to catch you online soon (I'd call but my cell phone minutes are dangerously low atm).

alegwyni December 1 2008, 07:37:23 UTC

Not really. S'not you, though--it's the girlfriend and the roommie. And Jenny, to a lesser degree. I know why Jen never has time--she's a grad student with a brand-new boyfriend that eats up most of her time.

But Mary? She gets hours to herself every day while I'm at class or asleep. And still ignores me during my free time.

Jess has only slightly more to do than Mary, but always has fanfic to read or another friend to go see, sometimes for days at a time. And I know it's not a reflection on me, that she just wants to spend some time with other people. But it reads that way, especially when I'm already depressed.

vareth_is December 1 2008, 23:03:25 UTC

Have you talked to them about this? I love 'em both but they're both kinda spacey--they might not even realize how much it's bothering you. Having been the spacey one in that situation (I ignore Lauren far more than I should), I say try and bring it up more often. Even if it causes a fight, at least then they're paying attention, right? And it's out in the open.

It does suck, though, and I'm sorry you're depressed. :( *hughughughughughughughughug*