hey i DEFINETLY know the feeling. my sorority requires soooo much stuff and we too have to pay fines for like EVERYTHING and it's so stressful. but i know you really love KD so it would be a mistake to drop it. if i've stayed with pi phi this long then i know you can stick with it because you're waaaaay more determined and stuff than i am. and hey, atleast you don't have study hours(that i know of anyway) because those are the worst part to me. anyway, keep your head up. i know you can handle everything. <3
youre right i am the one that started a job... but that really wasn't my decision~ i HAVE to get a job! so i really dont have a choice in the matter... and when u do get new jobs you can't start off going in there and asking off right away b/c youre new and of course they aren't going to say ok~ in order to be to be in KD i have to get a job and if it comes to working or the sorority i really dont have a choice in the matter- b/c WORK COMES BEFORE EXTRA CURRICULAR ACTIVITIES~ i did NOT know that your socials were mandatory- i found that out on sunday- we didn't HAVE socials we had swaps and they were not frequent at all and they weren't mandatory- and i'msorry but not everybody knew that kick off as mandatory b/c i talked to a couple of ppl that day including ppl who lived in the house who said we didn't have to go to that-- so... OBVIOUSLY i wasn't the only one who was confused on that matter~
and another thing- i know damn well that having a job, being in a sorority and having school is "time management". I worked every single day with the exception of sunday & monday, still made it to every mandatory event and had a 3.4 GPA. So i think i am perfectly capable of managing my time. but when i get a weeks notice about things that are mandatory that's a WHOLE DIFFERENT situation... and honestly it really has to do with ppl assuming that everybody knew that things were mandatory- if ppl would inform you of things then everybody would know... but until sunday everybody assumed that i knew and everybody else knew they were mandatory- well sorry i cannot read minds... nobody has ever told me until sunday-- so IF I COULD GET MORE THAN MAYBE A WEEKS NOTICE ABOUT THINGS THEN MAYBE I CAN HANDLE MY TIME A LITTLE BETTER BUT UNTIL THEN PLEASE DONT TALK TO ME ABOUT MANAGING MY TIME BC OBVIOUSLY I AM PERFECTLY CAPABLE OF DOING THAT!!!
well-- i just found out that alot of that is the wrong thing that ppl told me~ i found out that i wont get fined for not going to pledge preview if i am on bad standing- and it's really not as bad as it looks lol the fines aren't that much anyway- but i've only missed one thing so i have 1 fine- and tonight i am not getting fined... and i guess i'm going to pledge preview the money is due tomorrow morning but i dunno if i can get there in time lol but lol yeah it's really not as bad as it looks- i was informed of the wrong things!
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