eHarmony article...interesting considering my recent events.

[aliciaf]

 Some people love hamming it up in front of the camera and sharing their snapshots with others-they get a kick out of sharing aspects of themselves freely. For others, though, the very thought of putting themselves out there can be an experience marked by insecurity and vulnerability. The "what ifs" invade:

• "What if someone doesn’t think I’m

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[kailyn25]

Ooh... well written!

[aliciaf]

Yeah, they have all these articles that sort of give you some good perspective. It definitely made me rethink closing anyone based on their initial answers or photo.

There are some people where you know that either their intro or photo is just not compatible with you and you can close, but I am keeping a few open that I might ordinarily close. I felt a little bad this morning closing a guy that claimed he was "differently abled" (I think it's a deformed arm) but I closed him for other reasons - his responses turned me off, and all of his pictures featured him with other women.

I regretfully closed another guy that would have otherwise been great because he said he was highly allergic to cats (I have 2) and that if anyone had cats that it wouldn't work. Alas.