Man are from Mars and Women are from Venus - but I'm from Pluto

[alienashi]

Last week was one of those very few times that I feel productive and unproductive at the same time. It seems like no matter how much work I searched to do in a day, I always end up doing things that doesn't really match with details in the report I need to send to my manager OTL Felt like such a failure, I kinda wept a bit *crosses finger that this

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[alienashi]

Yea, he really is one of the nicest guy I ever knew, though I technically haven't met him yet ... but my sister is so in bliss, I couldn't help thinking that my dad is nuts for denying her a chance of happiness.

why would asking a fourth time make me more willing to tell you than the third time, anyways?

BY THE POWER OF PERSISTENT PERSUASION, PEOPLE WILL??

LOL no. I hate it when people gets persistent. I will be rude to people and I hate being rude to people, for this exact reason.

[giethe]

Don't worry about long entries - it took only a minute to read and was quite entertaining.

Slow down and relax. :D This Louisa person gives good advice.

[alienashi]

Weeeeee, getting rested, thanks bb ~

[cease11]

Thank god for your long rant. I've been working 9-12 hr a days and I'm too tired to even rant, so it was awesome to read yours XD

I hand wash most of my clothes - because most of them are made of fine material/or will otherwise be ruined in the wash. I don't see the problem with not having a washing machine.

Your sister's boyfriend sounds sweet XD
I'm not telling my dad about any relationships until I'm engaged. Seriously. It's too much trouble and I don't like other people telling me what to do, lol

What you said about your housemates makes me reconsider moving out. I'm planning to move out with a friend of mine and her friend (who I've yet to meet). My friend's really nice and we get along great, but she's an only child and her parents dote on her SO MUCH - I'm totally scared that she'll turn out to be a nagging/clingy person to live with, lol.
And I really can't stand stinginess XD

So yeah, living life not fussing over every detail is a better way to live &hearts

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[alienashi]

Haha, rants aren't supposed to make you feel better! They are tailor-made designed to make you feel like the person ranting is barking mad :(:(

I'm probably never gonna get into a relationship anyway, so I don't wanna worry about that :D

OMG spoilt children. Run far far far away from them. They are always going to tell you how mistreated they are outside their parent's safety nest, how they deserve something better, how everything is shit .. etc etc.

[codegal182]

Man, your dad's going a bit overboard, isn't he? I mean, isn't this guy far more preferable than that other loser that your other sister got entangled with? I would far rather have someone who cooks for me and has no issues with sharing his feelings than some player wannabe. Maybe he needs to be reminded of that fact? Dunno...

As for your "well-meaning" friends, yeah, way annoying. I would have turned my phone off after the third call. Pretty sure.

Aaaaaand, I remember you telling me about your friend Louisa. If only all the brats in the world could have such a good friend, we'd have less idiots running around thinking they're entitled to whatever it is they want, etc.

[alienashi]

IKR, there are still things we hide from my dad, namely *ahem* contraceptive *ahem* tools. My parents are operating on the assumption that the *ahem* dick-headed mothafucka is outta my sister's life, so there's nothing much we can say. Thing is, going against my dad is pointless. I'm self-sustained enough to be able to cut all ties from him if the worst does happen should I try to fight --- and I'm alone in that.

OH THANK YOU. I've been calling myself an ingrate and a huge bitch for thinking like that, and some people just indulged in me "uh, yea" when I told them that and it made me feel worse. Clearly some people need to understand the concept of "personal space" more? Like, dude, just because I'm holed up in my room all day doesn't mean I'm anti-social. I just love myself a hell lot. This is when I pull out a Samantha Jones line (Sex and The City XDDD): I love you, but I love me more.

[codegal182]

Ah, in that case, I guess there's no point in rehashing that ugliness again. Especially not since it may freak your parents out again. D: I think its time you and me had ourselves a vacation!

Hahah, yeah, but its not even that complicated. They were just calling you just to bug you and not help in any productive way. There's a difference if they were calling you making sure you weren't in danger of being assaulted in the carpark, etc. etc., but they were calling you to bug you over a small parking fine. Those kinda calls I think can't really be justified.

[alienashi]

Now that you said it this way .. OH YES. I mean, why would they think calling me repeatedly will help in any way. It's like, if it's missing then it's missing, no?

WHERE ARE YOU? I NEED MY DR PENNY ON REGULAR DOSAGES.

[enelya87]

Hand washing for the win~ I rarely used washing/drying machines at college because I refused to pay an arm and a leg just for jets of water and hot air.

I know what you mean by people unable to believe that you're fine! Sometimes people just need to take people at their word XD

[alienashi]

I know, right? Why pay so much when you can wash them for free .. besides, it's more hygienic? You wouldn't know what kind of clothes were being washed in there ..

Yea. And fgs, it's me, an adult. I wouldn't believe that I cannot, for the life of me, handle the Super Special Case of a Missing Parking Ticket.