I just realised I make no sense. WhatI mean is, I'm one of the girls that complains (or used to) about guys arent nice and blah blah. Sure, theres nice guys out there but none of THEM are lining up to date any girls like me. Only asshole guys like girls like me. So yeah, girls want nice guys but none of the nice guys actually show any interest in themat all so all there is is the asshole ones.
And since I gave up on that whole scene b/c dating assholes is lame, I <3 gay guys b/c theyre the only ones not mean to me, or trying to grab on my boobs.
And as far as helping others who don't want it, and don't need it, just cause you don't need it doesn't mean I don't. I need to feel useful, it makes me feel better about myself, and whether you need the help or not, you might as well take my helping hand. It's a free deal, it's not judging and thinking less of you as a person, and believe it or not, I probally look up to all the things you deal with without help.
Those ...Thats incredibly selfish. You say these things and act like you have some big benevolent plan for helping people, then you contradict yourself and say something like that. If you really feel that way, go join a group or club that helps people, helps raise money for people who are sick or need real help, instead of giving advice on people's love life when you can keep a grip on your own. None of this is meant to be mean or to be taken as me making fun, its just constructive criticism which might make you realize why some people get so annoyed when you try to help. I'll use myself as an example
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Re: Youre still gaystealthsteph146November 9 2005, 16:41:47 UTC
Quote: So I ask society to stop judging me. Stop thinking that I'm gay, or that I'm not masculine. Even if I was gay, there is nothing wrong with it.
Oh and as for your masculinity issues, you dont need to prove yourself to society, the people who matter and who you keep close know who you are and that you are a great person whether or not we tease you for liking broadway. Just because we call you a fanny bandit here and there doesnt mean we actually think you are. To be completely honest, if you ever came out of the closet I'd be incredibly surprised and shocked, but would still love you in case you were worried I wouldnt if you are gay cause you kinda act like it ha ha just kidding get over the gay thing and so will we.
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actually I <3 gay guys more than straight guys, and metrosexual guys don't like me only assholes who want to do me or whatever, so yeah.
Mike keeps telling me Im NOT gay even though I dated a girl for a while, which confuses me but whatever.
I <3 you :)
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And since I gave up on that whole scene b/c dating assholes is lame, I <3 gay guys b/c theyre the only ones not mean to me, or trying to grab on my boobs.
Maybe now i made more sense
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... with it.
And as far as helping others who don't want it, and don't need it, just cause you don't need it doesn't mean I don't. I need to feel useful, it makes me feel better about myself, and whether you need the help or not, you might as well take my helping hand. It's a free deal, it's not judging and thinking less of you as a person, and believe it or not, I probally look up to all the things you deal with without help.
Those ...Thats incredibly selfish. You say these things and act like you have some big benevolent plan for helping people, then you contradict yourself and say something like that. If you really feel that way, go join a group or club that helps people, helps raise money for people who are sick or need real help, instead of giving advice on people's love life when you can keep a grip on your own. None of this is meant to be mean or to be taken as me making fun, its just constructive criticism which might make you realize why some people get so annoyed when you try to help. I'll use myself as an example ( ... )
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So I ask society to stop judging me. Stop thinking that I'm gay, or that I'm not masculine. Even if I was gay, there is nothing wrong with it.
Oh and as for your masculinity issues, you dont need to prove yourself to society, the people who matter and who you keep close know who you are and that you are a great person whether or not we tease you for liking broadway. Just because we call you a fanny bandit here and there doesnt mean we actually think you are. To be completely honest, if you ever came out of the closet I'd be incredibly surprised and shocked, but would still love you in case you were worried I wouldnt if you are gay cause you kinda act like it ha ha just kidding get over the gay thing and so will we.
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