i know it's only going to get deleted...

[thepassword]

but i posted about cheating on my military husband overseas. there was more to the story. he wanted to swing with a couple before he left. i didn't want to but wanted to please him. i watched him bang another woman 3 times while her husband went limp and i was left to watch. we were both very drunk. my husband told me i should have told him i didn'

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[anonymous]

:(

I don't know what to say, I have never been in this situation before.

However I think it is good to realize that you are both at fault. I hope he can realize that too.

[anonymous]

I'm not so sure you didn't want the swinger thing to work, (he went limp SOUNDS LIKE DISAPPOINTMENT MORE THAN REGRET) sPEAKING OF REGRET: vOLTAIRE, A VERY WISE MAN, SAID hE (SHE) WHO REGRETS IS TWICE UNHAPPY AND DOUBLY WEAK. pERHAPS. Pardon the typing, slip of the finger. So the questions are: Do you love you're husband? Are you willing to enter into the swinger or Poly life style? Will you're marriage survive if you don't or if you do. Is sex you're only form of intimacy? What did the other man give you that was'nt available? Sex, intimacy, both? I have no judgement of you as I was once a swinger with a beautiful, bi woman with a great profession. I became jealous and posessive when she went away for the weekend with another woman.Life is difficult. I would venture that if that you do not want that scene the marriage is in some deep do-do. I truely wish you happiness in whatever choice you make.