I think a part of me wants to like, stop and tell them what they think is wrong. Because it's sad to me, that people can live life thinking those things. I feel like not only is it unfair to the people they are judging, but it's also unfair to themselves. Thinking like that can make you miserable. As a relative or a friend, I would want to help pull them away from this. Providing of course, that I have the courage in said situation.