Oh, Ashley, I'm so, so sorry. =( I guess the end was inevitable for a while now, but I still held out hope, as you clearly did.. I sincerely hope and pray that the upcoming years make up for this horrible mess. I just can't fathom how Shanna could have changed so drastically in the span of, what, a couple years? Maybe she was disguising that all along, but it's hard to imagine. Whatever the case, I'm really heartbroken to know you had to endure all that, and for naught. ::hug:: But I know that you're strong and you'll get through this. Just wish life weren't so complicated.
Thanks, Kris. *accepts hug*. I don't understand all the changes either, but even more, I can't understand the point in pretending. I suppose life doesn't have to be some complicated - maybe it's time to concentrate on simpler things for a while...
He should be ashamed of himself? Open your eyes for a SECOND and see that what you do affects other people. Because, my dear, at the end of the day if you keep treating people like complete and utter shit, it will come back to bite you in the ass. Pretty soon people will turn their backs on you and then you will truly be alone in the world. Remember: What ye sends out comes back times three - and I hope to the Goddess that it happens to you soon.
I knew this would happen, which is why I have not commented for a while. Get the nasty bitch kicked back to America. She only came back to you most likely to fulfill requirements to stay here. Americans always twist things to suit them. Hope 2009 is a better for you. From anon nosey reader who kept asking for updates.
I'm still divided. On one hand it would explain a lot for her to have been only trying to stay, but a lot of other things don't fit. But then, things with Shanna often don't make sense.
Anyway, whatever happens to her now is not my concern. Apparently she's hoping to get some kind of working visa, but considering she's an unskilled worker with no particular field or experience other than retail, I can't see it being likely.
For a while I thought you were Shanna, but since she was sleeping as you posted, I guess not. Hmm. The mystery continues.
You know I always had a bad feeling about her. I am so sorry that people feel it's acceptible to treat you so badly. You have tried so hard for her, I know this, but sometimes... She's just not worth it.
It's like, the other day me and Josh were arguing because he feels that I don't appretiate everything he does for me, and I felt he was trying to crush my spirit and independance. But in the end we came to a compremise (Sorry can't spell) whereby I still feel I am in control and he still feels appretiated.
If you're with someone who refuses to make any sacrifices for you and expects you to do everything for them, kick them to the curb. That is not how love works.
Sorry for the uber long comment. I hope the future is bright for you. It's about time you had something go right for once. Lol.
So I've heard, but I don't think you ever told me yourself. Though I suppose it wouldn't have really made any difference.
Your last post was quite interesting. I guess I never know what's going on underneath, but you and Josh always seemed good to me. The cycles you talked about are okay as long as they are about something different each time - living together you're bound to come across lots of things that cause arguments, as I'm sure you're discovered. I think the need to worry comes if you find it's always the same thing, because that kind of indicates you never really resolve it. As long as you resolve all the issues you find, all is good :)
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Anyway, whatever happens to her now is not my concern. Apparently she's hoping to get some kind of working visa, but considering she's an unskilled worker with no particular field or experience other than retail, I can't see it being likely.
For a while I thought you were Shanna, but since she was sleeping as you posted, I guess not. Hmm. The mystery continues.
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It's like, the other day me and Josh were arguing because he feels that I don't appretiate everything he does for me, and I felt he was trying to crush my spirit and independance. But in the end we came to a compremise (Sorry can't spell) whereby I still feel I am in control and he still feels appretiated.
If you're with someone who refuses to make any sacrifices for you and expects you to do everything for them, kick them to the curb. That is not how love works.
Sorry for the uber long comment. I hope the future is bright for you. It's about time you had something go right for once. Lol.
Love you. XxxX
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Your last post was quite interesting. I guess I never know what's going on underneath, but you and Josh always seemed good to me. The cycles you talked about are okay as long as they are about something different each time - living together you're bound to come across lots of things that cause arguments, as I'm sure you're discovered. I think the need to worry comes if you find it's always the same thing, because that kind of indicates you never really resolve it. As long as you resolve all the issues you find, all is good :)
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