I'm not sure if doing things I don't want to do for/with a guy would be compromising my morals or just telling myself to losen up, this is college, this is life. Help?
If you don't want to do it, don't. That's not "losening up." That's just bad. Do it when you feel ready and when you want to do it with someone you care about.
I'm not saying that what he wants me to go is necessarily bad, just not something I'm comfortable with and don't know if I should be or not. And not everything is about sex, Teddy ;-) (although this sort of it... anyways...)
Did I ever say it was? Bad was the wrong adjective, but it was early, I couldn't find a better one. If you're not comfortable with it, you're not comfortable with it. Don't worry about it.
Listen to the little Alli buzzing around inside your head. You are strong, independant, and beautiful and you shouldn't have to compromise your morals or how you feel in that circumstance for anyone. If he's any sort of decent, he will respect you for letting him know when you are uncomfortable.
Even if it isn't necessarilly "bad" if you are uncomfortable it's how you feel, and you simply can't change that. And you most definitely shouldn't ignore it. Learn from my mistakes, if anything.
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Even if it isn't necessarilly "bad" if you are uncomfortable it's how you feel, and you simply can't change that. And you most definitely shouldn't ignore it. Learn from my mistakes, if anything.
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