been there, done thatx_saru_xMarch 13 2010, 22:51:29 UTC
Aw, girl =(( I know how a friendship going wrong can be a huge downer, trust me. Been through pretty much every kind of friend-related 'disaster', and all I have to say is this: Things always happen for a reason. I know it's tough to go through such a situation in this age, but think of it as an experience and precious knowledge. If this happens now, you'll be able to judge better and cut through the bs, later in life.
I'm sorry you're not feeling well, and I really hope you get over it, but, really. The more you experience, the more you know. ♥
Re: been there, done thatalmighty_heeMarch 13 2010, 23:07:02 UTC
i'm trying hard not to pick up the phone and start screaming and cursing to those i used to call my friends,and then go back in my corner and start crying with tears. i know things happen for some reason,but it's so hard to start over again.for six fucking years i was trusting wrong people.i had put them over my family,and i realised that's a huge mistake. thanks bb,that whole thing means a lot for me,i'll try to follow your last sentence,the more you experience,the more you know it hurts so much...........
I agree with Saru actually. It's unfortunately a "must" to have those kind of things in your life and they actually teach you more than you can imagine they do. I know it sucks and I've experienced it, too but there's nothing you can do but accept it and move on. Things deffo happen for a reason. One thing you mustn't do is give up on friendship, for is the best thing to believe in -more than love imho- and have in your life. We most of the time have our friends over our families, because you can't choose your family but you do get to choose your friends, and those are your real family. <3
i would never expect that those people would betrayed me. i do believe that things happen for some reason,but i couldn't imagine we would end up in that way. i can't believe it even now. it seems that all the good things end someday.i can't accept it yet,so i can't move on,but i know i have to,no matter how much it hurts. thank u di <3333333
I never thought you'd explode now, like a year later. You should know the whole thing from back then, am I right? Is that the "reason" you ain't tell me? Cause I know pretty much everything now, and who told you I'd keep a grudge about it? I'll stand on this:
is an ex-boyfriend more important than your sister or brother? I'm not such a silly person you know
( ... )
is that the "reason"i won't tell you???????? lol you made me laugh so hard . you think i knew what's was going on behind my back? i just learn it,if you wanna know. trust me if i knew i wouldn't explode now,but back then.
I had thought that you'd probably talk about me+him back then (thing that I consider pretty much normal from the moment this activated your ninja mood xD) yeah,sorry my fault again,i know. and don't feel sorry about something,everyone was talking about the bad big sis,so don't worry. i was fine then,i'm fine now.
you mean that you weren't aware of it the night he started saying bullshit? You didn't know when he said "I've talked about it with friends, and they know better..blah blah.." ? And you found out now. How?
I didn't say I had any problem with that o.O and by saying everyone, you mean? :S
first of all,no honey i didn't know about what he was talking that night,if you remember i asked you one thousand times why he was acting like that.if i was aware like you said,that means that i'd talked to him and made him to break up with u? secondly,when he said "i've talked with my friends....." i was sure this wasn't me,obviously lol,and i didn't understand he was referring to MY FRIENDS, MY BEST FRIENDS,who where talking about me behind my back.yeah,sorry i didn't know that. does it really matter how i found out?after all this?i don't think so. oh,and by saying everyone,i mean everyone.i mean it.
i don't wanna destroy my journal's image,talking about this person.he is 23 years old,but he is acting like a 5 years old child.if you wanna be friend with him,it's fine.he used to be my friend,but now i don't care at all.
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I know how a friendship going wrong can be a huge downer, trust me. Been through pretty much every kind of friend-related 'disaster', and all I have to say is this: Things always happen for a reason. I know it's tough to go through such a situation in this age, but think of it as an experience and precious knowledge. If this happens now, you'll be able to judge better and cut through the bs, later in life.
I'm sorry you're not feeling well, and I really hope you get over it, but, really. The more you experience, the more you know. ♥
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i know things happen for some reason,but it's so hard to start over again.for six fucking years i was trusting wrong people.i had put them over my family,and i realised that's a huge mistake.
thanks bb,that whole thing means a lot for me,i'll try to follow your last sentence,the more you experience,the more you know
it hurts so much...........
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i do believe that things happen for some reason,but i couldn't imagine we would end up in that way.
i can't believe it even now.
it seems that all the good things end someday.i can't accept it yet,so i can't move on,but i know i have to,no matter how much it hurts.
thank u di <3333333
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You should know the whole thing from back then, am I right? Is that the "reason" you ain't tell me? Cause I know pretty much everything now, and who told you I'd keep a grudge about it?
I'll stand on this:
is an ex-boyfriend more important than your sister or brother?
I'm not such a silly person you know ( ... )
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is that the "reason"i won't tell you???????? lol you made me laugh so hard .
you think i knew what's was going on behind my back?
i just learn it,if you wanna know.
trust me if i knew i wouldn't explode now,but back then.
I had thought that you'd probably talk about me+him back then (thing that I consider pretty much normal from the moment this activated your ninja mood xD)
yeah,sorry my fault again,i know.
and don't feel sorry about something,everyone was talking about the bad big sis,so don't worry.
i was fine then,i'm fine now.
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You didn't know when he said "I've talked about it with friends, and they know better..blah blah.." ?
And you found out now. How?
I didn't say I had any problem with that o.O
and by saying everyone, you mean? :S
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secondly,when he said "i've talked with my friends....." i was sure this wasn't me,obviously lol,and i didn't understand he was referring to MY FRIENDS, MY BEST FRIENDS,who where talking about me behind my back.yeah,sorry i didn't know that.
does it really matter how i found out?after all this?i don't think so.
oh,and by saying everyone,i mean everyone.i mean it.
i don't wanna destroy my journal's image,talking about this person.he is 23 years old,but he is acting like a 5 years old child.if you wanna be friend with him,it's fine.he used to be my friend,but now i don't care at all.
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