Comments | alorindanya: Troubles at Work again

alorindanya

Troubles at Work again

Sep 17, 2009 20:13

I don't know how to change myself to make me not react so strongly when random things go wrong. What I say gets taken the wrong way or comes out in a way I didn't intend it. I think I'm ready to move on, but I am stuck. I am #1 in senority and am making more money here than I could if I left for another department. So if I did leave, I would be ( Read more... )

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magenta69 September 18 2009, 11:50:00 UTC

If you are comfortable sharing, what exactly is getting taken the wrong way? Perhaps some of your LJ friends and give you advice on it.

alorindanya September 18 2009, 23:53:52 UTC

Oh, it's just me really. When ever something happens that throws me off, I tend to over react. I don't raise my voice, I don't say inappropriate things, but apparently having a condescending tone is just as bad. So there are different ways I could approach things, it's just that when I am 'in the moment' my filter seems to switch off and out comes anything that comes to my head.

magenta69 September 23 2009, 20:19:15 UTC

Gotcha. We are all like that. Sometimes we just let our emotions show at the wrong times.

auntboo99 October 30 2009, 05:45:35 UTC

I totally understand that feeling