u okay? sounds kinda serious, but i wont ask anything further. just that i kinda think most of the time rites ARE some kind of show, coz no matter how bad u are, when u are dead during rites, you become some kind of saintly person... i suppose if there really were spirits of the dead, maybe its just to make em happyO_o;. Not that it answers your question, coz i also dun know! human phenomenon. well, to spend that precious time with important family members isnt the easiest for ppl with our lifestyle. I hardly get to see my dad too, even though deep inside, i know he doesnt have that much of time left. am i supposed to quit my job and spend time at home? actaully come to think of it, when i die i dont really care what kind of rites either, or even if i get any. I just want to die in peace. thats enough.
well, though i doubt i can be of any help at all, do let me know if theres anything. *is worried*
that problem is kinda resolved already since they are going to leave the decision up to my grandmother. so it is going to be a buhhdist thing. but my grandmother is now angry cause my aunts won't be joining in the full parade of ritual due to religion. so... like that lah..
hey you are hardly online leh... got something to ask you... nvm shall email you.
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dory, ze one who's crazy abt gadgets
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well, to spend that precious time with important family members isnt the easiest for ppl with our lifestyle. I hardly get to see my dad too, even though deep inside, i know he doesnt have that much of time left. am i supposed to quit my job and spend time at home? actaully come to think of it, when i die i dont really care what kind of rites either, or even if i get any. I just want to die in peace. thats enough.
well, though i doubt i can be of any help at all, do let me know if theres anything. *is worried*
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hey you are hardly online leh... got something to ask you... nvm shall email you.
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i'm online now! is 10.30 too late to be online to catch you? hahha
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