in the case of breaking up with your boyfriend so your best friend can go out with him.. first of all, that's incredibly immature. passing your boyfriend off? if your boyfriend likes your friend then you shouldn't be with him anyway.. if he likes you then he should't/wouldn't want to go out with your friend.. second of all, if that did happen (you broke up with your boyfriend and he and your friend got together) it's true that you're happy FOR them but you would not be happy yourself. it's true that your friends happiness should be your own but the fact of the matter is that that they're seperate entities in most cases. you would have gained nothing. not a shred of happiness. one CAN be entirely selfless in certain situations.
if only i knew who was making it, although I think I have a clue.
What do you think about this.... If someone falls and you go to pick them up, is that being selfless because you don't just want them lying there, or do you want the satisfaction of helping them up?
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I <3 nicole.
Even though you are a bitch for writing that journal entry.
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first of all, that's incredibly immature. passing your boyfriend off? if your boyfriend likes your friend then you shouldn't be with him anyway.. if he likes you then he should't/wouldn't want to go out with your friend..
second of all, if that did happen (you broke up with your boyfriend and he and your friend got together) it's true that you're happy FOR them but you would not be happy yourself. it's true that your friends happiness should be your own but the fact of the matter is that that they're seperate entities in most cases. you would have gained nothing. not a shred of happiness. one CAN be entirely selfless in certain situations.
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if only i knew who was making it, although I think I have a clue.
What do you think about this....
If someone falls and you go to pick them up, is that being selfless because you don't just want them lying there, or do you want the satisfaction of helping them up?
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