I feel the same way sometimes, and I certainly wouldn't mind a proposal soon (I was actually hoping for one today, as it's our anniversary), but I know I need to wait on the kids thing. As much as I love them, and I'm sure I'd love my own a thousand times more, I don't think I could handle it on top of everything else at this point.
Have you ever been to Victoria? It's gorgeous. We went last summer, this year (next week) we're going to Vancouver. I'm excited.
congratulations on the anniversary - four years seems like forever - and i really know that.. cuz ian and i are right behind you. i haven't been to victoria before, so i'm excited. you should drop in on your way up five, since i live about three minutes from the interstate :P 903 7011, maybe we could do dinner / lunch / something.
There is a super cute bar called Hugo's. I don't know exactly where it is, but it's downtown somewhere, so if you see it and are looking for good drinks go there!
It's actually been decided that we will be staying in Bellingham for a night. We're leaving here early on Wednesday the 24th, and we're staying with my friend Megan who just moved up there. I will call you when we get into town and we can figure out a time to get together!
yeah, everyone is getting all settled with the marriage and the kids. atleast you have a boyfriend, so your future looks pormising as far as that goes, even if it doesn't happen super soon.
i hate waiting for things. i hate uncertainty.. not that anything would be more certain if we got married.. its just that we've been dating so long, i feel like we're somewhere in between dating and marriage that doesn't have a face or a name and it makes me uncomfortable.
it will happen when it is right. give it time, and don't rush - as happy as i am to be having ella, i Do wish that we were doing it the 'right' way. while i don't believe anyone is ever really prepared for kids, i wish we had been at least headed in that direction. :P
and i am so jealous of your modivation to get in shape. i can't force myself to care about working out, and am destined to be a fat slob once my motabolism slows down. :/
i agree - i want kids a ton and i'm majoring in psych and taking a lot of development classes and planning to spend the better part of my life working with kids - but i still think no one is ever really really ready. how scary is that? but somehow, most of us manage to live through it. kind of boggles my mind.
haha.. now i feel guilty about not going to the gym tonight.. but it's nearly closed and i just got off work and ... and... i don't feel like it :/
i'm sure you and tom are going to be amazing, fun, understanding parents. i'm really happy for you :)
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As much as I love them, and I'm sure I'd love my own a thousand times more, I don't think I could handle it on top of everything else at this point.
Have you ever been to Victoria? It's gorgeous.
We went last summer, this year (next week) we're going to Vancouver.
I'm excited.
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i haven't been to victoria before, so i'm excited.
you should drop in on your way up five, since i live about three minutes from the interstate :P
903 7011, maybe we could do dinner / lunch / something.
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It's actually been decided that we will be staying in Bellingham for a night. We're leaving here early on Wednesday the 24th, and we're staying with my friend Megan who just moved up there.
I will call you when we get into town and we can figure out a time to get together!
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have fun in victoria!
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i hate uncertainty.. not that anything would be more certain if we got married.. its just that we've been dating so long, i feel like we're somewhere in between dating and marriage that doesn't have a face or a name and it makes me uncomfortable.
anyway.. thanks, i'm sure we will :)
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and i am so jealous of your modivation to get in shape. i can't force myself to care about working out, and am destined to be a fat slob once my motabolism slows down. :/
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but somehow, most of us manage to live through it. kind of boggles my mind.
haha.. now i feel guilty about not going to the gym tonight.. but it's nearly closed and i just got off work and ... and... i don't feel like it :/
i'm sure you and tom are going to be amazing, fun, understanding parents. i'm really happy for you :)
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