I thought you were already friends only. You should be able to put whatever you want in your journal, it's just a privelege for anyone else to read it.
Yeah, I'm defensive. I've been extra defensive and sensitive for a good long while now. Why? Because I'm trying to protect myself and I don't know who my friends are anymore.
So, if you do still like me and if your bitching wasn't about me, then it's all fine and dandy. I'm just edgy, and anything I can take personally, I will.
However, I'm still going friends only. It's not like anyone really cares anyway.
kinbote is a sly zemblan.door_wide_openOctober 8 2003, 19:45:28 UTC
protect yourself from what? how is defensiveness going to protect you?
that won't get you very far.
my comments about complaining weren't to anybody specific. it was a general announcement for the good of the public. we all sit here and whine and complain. but honestly, we all lead fairly good lives. i take 8 pills a day. i self-inject 3 times a week. yeah, it gets old. but it's not that bad. my roommate has a heart defect and a chronic respiratory condition that means she can't overwork her heart and that she has meds to take for the rest of her life. but it's not that bad. all the young men are killing all the young men in the killing fields again.
i find it hard to accept complaining from someone (not saying you, specifically) when half the time they do nothing to make the situation better.
Re: kinbote is a sly zemblan.ambiepambieOctober 9 2003, 07:26:26 UTC
Defensiveness makes everyone go away.
It took me a good long time to realize that my life isn't bad. I have a hard time seeing the good in situations, especially when it's one I don't want to be in. My life is good. It's getting better every day.
When I complain, I complain to just get it all out. I do stuff to try to make it better most of the time, but sometimes there is nothing I can do about it. Most of my complaining is about stuff I don't want to confront people about. I hate confrontation.
Hi,I added you and hope you will add me back if you decide to go friends only or even if you don't =)I saw your post on 4nannys.I love doing nanny work but currently I have no nanny work going on although I'm looking =)Looking forward to getting to know you.
i like your comments.blogaddict72January 24 2005, 08:14:40 UTC
I think your journal is fine, and its YOURS, you can write whatever you want in it. IF someone has a problem , dont read it. You were right in the first place. :-D take care. I added you as a friend :-D i hope that is ok? blogaddict72
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Thank you, Kerchi. Those are my thoughts exactly.
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i never said i didn't like you anymore. never said my bitching was about you.
but hey, whatever helps you sleep at night, honey.
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So, if you do still like me and if your bitching wasn't about me, then it's all fine and dandy. I'm just edgy, and anything I can take personally, I will.
However, I'm still going friends only. It's not like anyone really cares anyway.
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that won't get you very far.
my comments about complaining weren't to anybody specific. it was a general announcement for the good of the public. we all sit here and whine and complain. but honestly, we all lead fairly good lives. i take 8 pills a day. i self-inject 3 times a week. yeah, it gets old. but it's not that bad. my roommate has a heart defect and a chronic respiratory condition that means she can't overwork her heart and that she has meds to take for the rest of her life. but it's not that bad.
all the young men are killing all the young men in the killing fields again.
i find it hard to accept complaining from someone (not saying you, specifically) when half the time they do nothing to make the situation better.
friends only is for pansies
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It took me a good long time to realize that my life isn't bad. I have a hard time seeing the good in situations, especially when it's one I don't want to be in. My life is good. It's getting better every day.
When I complain, I complain to just get it all out. I do stuff to try to make it better most of the time, but sometimes there is nothing I can do about it. Most of my complaining is about stuff I don't want to confront people about. I hate confrontation.
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add me again & I STILL ♥ you!
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